it happens all the time. Once you find out about it, try to get your 'profile' removed from that other site. They may accommodate you or not, but you should try.
You prob made right choice regarding the potential client since you say your not comfortable seeing newbies. Totally your decision. LLAP,Swim
So I was contacted by a potential client today. He says he's never seen a provider before and although the 3 hour booking time he desired was very tempting, I had to pass as I'm just not comfortable enough seeing newbies. Anyway, so I asked him how he found me and he replied some site I've never even heard of?!
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They publish it so it looks like you use their site, it helps them generate traffic. That is a prime example of why it's important to use discretion, even on your own website.
Good judgement on your part, never let the offer of big money compromise your safety.
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Glad you went with your gut and passed. There are literally dozens of sites that lift/copy information so that traffic is brought to their site where they make money on the ads.
Just remember, once it's on the net it's always where for someone to copy
it happens all the time. Once you find out about it, try to get your 'profile' removed from that other site. They may accommodate you or not, but you should try.
You prob made right choice regarding the potential client since you say your not comfortable seeing newbies. Totally your decision.
LLAP,
Swim
...and I had them remove it immediately. Now, I'm glad they do it, lol.
I have a list of more than 50 escort advertising sites, if you can believe it. I post regularly on ten of them. It saves me the trouble of having to do it.
I believe it helps to be seen in a lot of places and frequently. I can always tell when some of my ads are expired because I get a noticeable decrease in traffic. I screen always, so I don't feel I need to be under the radar.
The most popular sites that bring the most traffic won't be doing our work for us for free.
If you want to know which sites work well for me, just let me know.
Like the others, good for you for not being tempted. Many times when you decline an offer from someone who says they have no references, suddenly they remember several ladies they've seen before. I make sure the ladies have reviews on TER before I use them as a reference. You can also google their phone numbers because they might not be on TER for some reason but have reviews on another review site, but 95% (?) of legit providers can be found right here
I feel the biggest red flag though was the "newbie" wanting a 3 hour session.. Makes the money VERY tempting, to possibly make a poor decision. In this case she didn't. I would never request a 3 hour session with a provider I have not seen before no matter how good and how many reviews she has had. OUR chemistry just may not work. I do read that a lot of clients try to go for a 30 minute initial session which also does not work for me as I take a long time to warm up, so to say. But I can definitely see a benefit to a short first session. Sorta like a M&G
Yes I agree! Now, I did have a client just recently book a dinner and dancing package through p411. This is also 3 hours (however it's discounted due to implement dinner and dancing),and I've never seen him before. However, I checked out his okays and he was very forthcoming of any additional info I wanted for my own secondary screening purposes. So I don't feel anxious about him at all. But the other one, I do find it odd that someone who's NEVER seen a provider before is willing to book a 3 hour session with a provider who only has 3 reviews. Makes me go HMMMMMM...
deciding between seeing a provider for 30 minutes or 1 hr. The recommendation I give newbies is to see a provider for a minimum of 1 hr. but, preferably, for 90 minutes or even 2-hrs. This helps overcome any nervousness that the guy might have. It also may enable MSOG as time allows.