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Re: I prefer text, so it's a 2-TEXT system for me.
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Wow I would be too afraid to have incalls at my house!  

Anyway, Thank you! I can't PM. I don't have VIP. :/

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I've read some mention on reviews regarding a "3 call system". Can someone please explain this to me? I want to be sure I'm using the safest strategies! Thank you :)

1st call gets you to a VERY general area, second call maybe to the street or hotel. Third call, gets you the room number or actual address.

1st one gets you to the hotel, 2nd gets the room number when you are close to the actual location.  Or, if it's an apt, the first one gets the name of the complex, second the exact address.  Same goes for private homes, first general area, second the address.

LLAP,
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Often the multi-call system is used by higher volume providers to keep guys circling so she can finish up with one and still have one or two waiting on deck. It can feel like a wild goose chase and the more calls you have to make, the more likely it is the meeting won't happen.
To me, two calls is plenty, one to get me close and one to invite me up to her room when she is ready for me.

Most of my dates are scheduled at least one day in advance so...
on the morning-of, the client texts me by a specified time to confirm, and I give my exact location (hotel name & address) at that time.

Then when he arrives he is to text me for my room number and directions through the lobby, to the elevator, etc so he's not wandering around looking like he's lost.  This is particularly important in small, quiet hotels that don't see a lot of foot traffic.

 
When I had an apartment for incall it was much the same: 1st text got you my street address and info on where to park, 2nd text upon arrival for my buzzer code & unit number.  

I had a friend who hosted incall at her house, and the first call would gain the cross-streets of the nearest gas station to her home, where the gentleman was to call again for the exact street address with directions into her subdivision... she would have the garage door open, waiting for him so he could just pull on in whereupon she would immediately hit the button to close the door behind his vehicle.    :-)

If you have any more questions, please feel free to PM (private message) me!  

 
xoxo

Wow I would be too afraid to have incalls at my house!  

Anyway, Thank you! I can't PM. I don't have VIP. :/

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You can get free limited provider VIP so you can read your own reviews and use the PM system. If your free Provider VIP hasn't been activated you can contact TER and request it.

You're right! I had no idea! This just keeps getting better and better! :)

...you had PM access. Those are the benefits of the limited free provider VIP. You can PM people and read the ones they send you. You can also read your reviews (but not the reviews of other providers) including the juicy details.

but for some it works out fine. As a client I have seen providers who host out of their homes, but if I was a provider it is not something I would do.

I know some providers only see "regulars" at their home... For new clients, hotels are better, but then some providers also have apartments for doing business. Some share apartments with other providers, could prove to be less expensive than using a decent hotel

I used to have an apartment just for incall, and have also shared a location with another lady.  
Going solo is best for me, and I am thinking of getting an apartment (sublet or short-term lease) for that purpose again... I've priced decent places in my area, and I would be spending roughly half to 2/3 of what I currently spend on hotels. :-)

The funny thing is, when I had my own incall apartment, most gentlemen believed that it WAS my home, even though I told them otherwise. Some people just can't believe that it is more cost-effective than a hotel, I guess.  
I wouldn't work out of my home, but some ladies prefer it and have few to no problems doing so

I went to a "local" BR provider a couple of times who worked out of an apartment. My first take was that it was very sterile, plus the fact that the "master" bedroom was being used as the massage room (no bed, just massage table). I assumed it was not "her place". Second visit, there was more personal stuff around.. Now I'm not so sure. But can totally see where an apartment rental can be more efficient.

Actually loved going to that place... Better vibes, than hotel, with guests, front desks, house keeping, and maintenance.

Brings to mind a time at a hotel, where I knocked on a room for a "visit" and the provider opened the door saying rather loudly, "Thanks for coming to fix my AC". Funny thing was, the maintenance guys WERE actually replacing lights in the hall, not 5 feet away. (Plus they were nearby, when my visit ended an hour later)

Wow, private garage parking.. Now that IS discretion...

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