Read the self help center. Check out Preferred411, it's a verification site and the staff there will work with you to get you verified. You can look for newbie friendly providers there as well. I live in Hillsborough county, and from past experience there are not a whole lot of providers in Polk, due to the efforts of GJ, your sheriff.
We all share your concerns about getting caught, but if you go about it the right way, the risks should be minimal. You have to research the ladies, verify pictures, the phone number, and if you stick to well-reviewed providers, you should be OK. If you have any questions after reading the self help center, come back here and ask. LLAP,Swim
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen, I just joined this site about a month ago and am very new to this. I will explain my situation and see if anyone would be kind enough to help me. First off, I live in the Polk County area (home of a very good sheriff). Needless to say, I'm paranoid as ever. I was married for 26 years and then had a girlfriend for 6 years and I've found that I just can't handle the insecurities that come with a serious relationship. I've always been a very needy man but I am scared to death of getting caught doing something that some would say is wrong. That said, how do I go about a verification process? I would like to find just one or maybe two safe havens to worship and would preferrably like to stay close to home if possible. For those who live in this area I would gladly meet in another County at first to make sure everything is OK. Does anyone else live in my area and have the same concerns? Any advice from anyone on this topic?
Read the self help center. Check out Preferred411, it's a verification site and the staff there will work with you to get you verified. You can look for newbie friendly providers there as well. I live in Hillsborough county, and from past experience there are not a whole lot of providers in Polk, due to the efforts of GJ, your sheriff.
We all share your concerns about getting caught, but if you go about it the right way, the risks should be minimal. You have to research the ladies, verify pictures, the phone number, and if you stick to well-reviewed providers, you should be OK.
If you have any questions after reading the self help center, come back here and ask.
LLAP,
Swim
Thank you swimtrekr, I will read the self help now, like I said I'm new to this. I know living in Pok is dangerous and I guess venturing into Hillsborough County is going to be my best bet. It is only a 30 minute drive from here anyway. Thank you again
I am also newbie and inexperienced. I live in NY. Where does one look for a newbie friendly provider?
Thanks for any suggestions.
I'm still looking myself, just real nervous and haven't had the guts to call one yet. Good luck to you and I wish I could've been more help.
Hi! Just sign up for P411, and ladies who are newbie friendly have that noted on their profiles.
Good luck and have fun
Thank you very much for that advise. I will sign up and hopefully find someone that I can stay with.
great independent ladies in both Tampa and Orlando that are just a short drive away. Do your homework and see only well-reviewed ladies and you will be fine.
Thank you very much for your input, well reviewed meaning they have a lot of reviews? Or well reviewed meaning good reviews? I'm still looking for my first.
well-reviewed means they have more than say a dozen reviews. or so. It helps a lot if they are good also.
If you are close to Hillsborough county, recommend you look there.
LLAP,
Swim