However, if you have a SO, or wife, DON'T DO IT!!!!!  A woman will know that another woman has been in her house.  Don't ask me how, but she will know.  If you are single, and have no SO, the only down side is that she will know where you live and so will her friends.  It's not a good idea to have a provider come to your home until you have seen her a few times, and established a good deal of trust.

LLAP,
Swim

You're in a safe comfortable and familiar setting.  You can set up the place just like you want, and you have all your own foods and drinks available as well as your music and videos.  Best of all, if gives me an excuse to clean up the crap shack.

8o)

But, listen to Swim and only do it if you are a swinging single like I am.  SOs have a keen sense of smell and memory of how every little detail should be and you'll get busted for sure if you invite a gal over while she's off visiting her family or some such thing.  If you have busybody neighbors, I'd suggest sneaking the gal in under cover of night.  If you have a garage, bring her in via the garage so the neighbors won't blab to the meme-sahib.

One hot cutie just made my day today by suggesting we party at my place this weekend.

I love it.

The first few times the provider I'm seeing would not go to my home. But after about a month or so she felt comfortable enough with me to see me at my home.

I've seen some pretty awesome flats, condos, mansions, you name it. Swinging bachelors sure know how to show a lady a good time in the comfort of their own digs. However, if you are planning on this route, deff listen to the above gents. I am a woman, and yes, we know 'everything' LOL.  

If you have pets, put them away even for cat and dog lovers until 'after' you meet. Clean up as a first impression of your home is also a first impression of you. If you're home isn't clean, we will assume you aren't either. And it's up to you to make her feel comfortable in every way, shape and form.  

Good luck to you,  

Taylor

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I've hosted a number of women at my home, after I've gotten to know them.  I avoid it if I've not seen them previously.  

The ambiance is much better for extended time together, especially for overnight stays.  But as someone has already mentioned, you need to make sure your place is immaculate. She's going to judge you by how you keep your place.

having my favorite provider over, but I did not have her over to my place until I had met with her many times.  

But, when I first started seeing her, I was living with my wife. By the time I moved out and got my own place I had been seeing my favorite for five months.