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MissMarieM See my TER Reviews 396 reads
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You are deciding FOR HER that her rate is too low for [what you just received.]

If you engage a lady with a $300/hr rate and a total 9/10 answers the door to an extra posh place, dressed in nice lingerie, and gives you an enthusiastic hour of perfect...

A tip still wouldn't be required or expected, but it is a nice way of saying, "Wow.  Above and beyond, my dear."

Now, if she sends you a bill charging extra for copies and the tongue depressor, then I'll accept the doctor/lawyer comparison. ;)

ymewish1470 reads

I like to tip. Is it better to tip before, or after?

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swimtrekr635 reads

Why do it before?  How do you know she will deserve it ahead of time?  Her fee is all inclusive, I doubt that tipping ahead of time will get upgraded service.  If you feel you got especially good service, then let her know afterwards if you want to tip her.  For many girls, the best tip is a return date.

I don't tip, I take gifts.  Do a search for tipping on this forum, it has been discussed many times.

LLAP,
Swim

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cocktail-party573 reads

If you're going to leave a tip regardless of service, then go ahead and leave it in the envelope with the rest of the cash. If she's classy, she'll show her appreciation the next time you see her. IMO, the worst are the guys who will practically wave their tip in front of her face, or who get pissy when they don't receive a big thank you communication after they leave (even though she's not doing so for the sake of discretion).

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mufflover2014564 reads

And always wait until after the session, to see/hope it is a great session. Waiving it in her face and or expecting reciprocation is just sad.

If you feel the session is deserving of an extra tip, pull it out and lay it on the dresser where you left the envelope, give her a kiss goodbye and Thank her for a wonderful time.

You will be remembered!

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mrfisher594 reads

Have the tip in your pocket, and just before you give her a goodbye hug and kiss, reach in and grab the tip in your hand and secure it to your palm with a couple of fingers as you hug her.

As you draw away, run the hand with the tip down her arm until you grasp her hand and then transfer it to her hand.  She'll know exactly what is happening and will give you a big smile which you can then reciprocate and say a soft thank you.

Works well every time.

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TaylorSteele801 reads

The 'exchange' in and of itself is a very uncomfortable thing for me personally to begin with. To throw in a tip on top of it in a very discreet, last minute gesture, is deff the way to go. Mr. Fishers way is perfect. I've had a select few gentlemen do it without me even knowing until much later after the date ended lol. Was deff an exciting and surprising way to find out afterwards. But still, tips are absolutely never expected, only granted when the gentleman feels he wants to do so.

T xx

Posted By: mrfisher
Have the tip in your pocket, and just before you give her a goodbye hug and kiss, reach in and grab the tip in your hand and secure it to your palm with a couple of fingers as you hug her.

As you draw away, run the hand with the tip down her arm until you grasp her hand and then transfer it to her hand.  She'll know exactly what is happening and will give you a big smile which you can then reciprocate and say a soft thank you.

Works well every time.

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MissMarieM394 reads

That's a WASP trademarked move, you can't just go 'round telling everybody!  :)

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AHappyCamper590 reads

If you're going to leave her a tip, do it afterwards and be discrete about it.  I normally don't leave a tip if its the first time I've seen her.   If I've seen her previously and we had a great time together, I will bring her something that she might have identified on her website as a wish list item or something that she enjoys that she has previously mentioned.

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ymewish556 reads

Posted By: AHappyCamper
If you're going to leave her a tip, do it afterwards and be discrete about it.  I normally don't leave a tip if its the first time I've seen her.   If I've seen her previously and we had a great time together, I will bring her something that she might have identified on her website as a wish list item or something that she enjoys that she has previously mentioned.  
Thanks for the advice. I will only tip afterwards if I think it was exceptional. And thanks for the advice on the gifts.

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AHappyCamper527 reads

You're welcome.  One other thing to consider, if you had a great time the best thing you can do is to see her again.

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xyz23600 reads

...You don't have to and you shouldn't feel like it's expected.

I agree with the others. If you choose to tip leave it at the conclusion of the session.

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fartsonhigher1632 reads

Tipping is for service workers who are both underpaid by an employer, and who also count on tips for income; or for those who work on tips alone.  

So why would you tip? To gain special favor? To somehow show you are a better class of guy?

Both of those things can be better accomplished in other ways. If you want to set yourself apart as a better class of client, then just do all the commonly recommend things: by very clean, be on time, treat her kindly, respect her boundaries, don't overstay your welcome... just be a gentleman.

If you enjoyed yourself, things went well and you would like to see her again, simply compliment her and ask right then if you could book a repeat session. She will appreciate that more than a tip.

Perhaps if a lady is not a clock watcher and ends up going quite a bit overtime—say 45 minutes over a one hour session— a tip can show you recognize and appreciate that. Otherwise, all you are doing is deciding FOR HER that her rate it too low for you. And that kind of pointless.

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MissMarieM397 reads

You are deciding FOR HER that her rate is too low for [what you just received.]

If you engage a lady with a $300/hr rate and a total 9/10 answers the door to an extra posh place, dressed in nice lingerie, and gives you an enthusiastic hour of perfect...

A tip still wouldn't be required or expected, but it is a nice way of saying, "Wow.  Above and beyond, my dear."

Now, if she sends you a bill charging extra for copies and the tongue depressor, then I'll accept the doctor/lawyer comparison. ;)

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fartsonhigher1419 reads

for her panties, so I'm gonna stick with the doctor/lawyer reference.  :)

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ValentinaTX471 reads

I don't necessarily agree. My hair dresser charges me close to $300 each time I get a cut and color yet I still tip her.  

No, a tip is not necessary but it's definitely a nice gesture and a sure way to bump you to favorite client status! :)
 

Posted By: fartsonhigher1
Tipping is for service workers who are both underpaid by an employer, and who also count on tips for income; or for those who work on tips alone.    
   
 So why would you tip? To gain special favor? To somehow show you are a better class of guy?  
   
 Both of those things can be better accomplished in other ways. If you want to set yourself apart as a better class of client, then just do all the commonly recommend things: by very clean, be on time, treat her kindly, respect her boundaries, don't overstay your welcome... just be a gentleman.  
   
 If you enjoyed yourself, things went well and you would like to see her again, simply compliment her and ask right then if you could book a repeat session. She will appreciate that more than a tip.  
   
 Perhaps if a lady is not a clock watcher and ends up going quite a bit overtime—say 45 minutes over a one hour session— a tip can show you recognize and appreciate that. Otherwise, all you are doing is deciding FOR HER that her rate it too low for you. And that kind of pointless.
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