so I at one time attempted to go thru the process of being verified thru rs2k to give me the opportunity to be verified somewhat and allow me to make appointment with some providers. I went thru the process with rs2k and got everything completed with them. After that process I started to attempt to make appointments to be seen. My first attempt to be seen was met by an appointment being scheduled and then nothing to follow up with the time came and past and was not able to reach the provider again. I of course chopped it up as a fluke and moved on. My second attempt at making an appointment went pretty much the same way only that a couPle of hours before my scheduled time I attempted to verify the time was still good only to be told that she would not see me because she checked out my verification info and that I appears toy have been blacklisted. I have trouble understanding how this could happen when I have yet to even see anyone and had only tried twice? I was trying to do everything I would need to do for them to be comfortable with me only to be labeled badly without even a chance to prove otherwise. This was several years ago and frustrated me so badly that I gave up on any thoughts of using anyone's service any longer! I have been giving this much thought as of late and I see no reason why this obvious mistake could not or should not for that matter be repaired! I want to fix the issue so that I could start to enjoy the company of others! I am not even sure how this happened to me so I have no clue how to fix it! I would really love to have someone give me an honest answer on how this happened to me, possibly what is said about me to cause me to be flagged negatively, and most importantly what it is I could do to repair this issue. I just wish I could solve this so I could move forward but I am not even sure what it is I am trying to fix to be honest with you! Can someone please help me or at least give me some real guidance?
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I find it odd, that any reputable lady would tell you that you are on a BlackList. All that does, is give the undesirables notice to change their handles, e-mail addresses, and phone numbers.
If you are using RS2K, you must be in the Chicago area. I will be there, the first week of May; perhaps, we could meet? Minneapolis a few days before.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
Actually I am in the Washington DC area. I used that service after getting such advice to do so while asking for help here with the verification process! You are absolutely correct about people changing their info and so on but I felt that I should not be forced to go that route as I have nothing to hide nor have I done anything wrong! With that being said I am big on someone's name and reputation because in reality that's all we have when you get right down to it! I think it is a big deal about someone's word and I try to make sure that my word is my bond!this is why it's important to me that I fix this issue rather than just creating a new profile and moving on! I guess you could say it's the principle behind the issue really!
I do believe I can receive pm's but not 100% sure about that! I guess we could try it out and if not we could attempt another solution if interested!
If you're not VIP, then just send her an email. :-
Google is your friend.
Perhaps it's a phone number...or a name you used. Could be an email account as well.
Google ALL of your personal information and see what shows up.
What some gals call blacklists are not blacklists...simply a "do not see" list that some have personally. Something isn't sounding right from your OP.
Do some homework...and if nothing shows up...try some other gals from RS2K. As well you can ask Kathy if there is an issue with your verification there.
Send Cathy (she runs RS2K, it's her baby) and as politely and nicely as possible, explain the series of events exactly as you outlined them above. She is the only one who can help.
I recently met a client who had a vaguely similar situation: he'd been a member a while, and had seen some ladies using RS2K, then.... He sent Jane Doe (fake name) an email asking if she was available that day. He didn't hear back quickly enough for his schedule so he contacted, booked, and met with another lady. Did not check that email account again for several days.... then finds dozens of nasty messages from the first lady accusing him of wasting her time.
He shrugged, deleted all the messages, and moved on. Some time goes by during which many ladies he contacts do not reply (he sends his RS2K info in first contact email) but he thinks nothing of it.
Finally, one lady he does meet with tells him that she was informed by RS2K that he was a NS/NC (no-show, no call) repeat offender. She obviously took a chance on him when others would not.
To remedy the situation, he sent a very friendly email to Cathy, who then explained that Jane Doe had claimed he'd stood her up repeatedly. But she later proved to be unreliable, thus Cathy believed him instead of Jane and deleted that problem report from his info.
So... maybe the first lady you attempted to meet via your RS2K verification went nuts and reported untrue things. If that is so, then it is a case of he-said/she-said and all you can do is plead your case to Cathy as best you can. 
Good luck!
I give you credit for wanting to clear your name versus trying to bypass a true verification.
It sounds like you may have accidentally no-showed to the first appointment. It also sounds like your second attempt was with a provider who does a medium level verification.
My advice is counter intuitive, but you should look for a provider who screens very strictly. There are many ways you can be blacklisted, some general and some specific. A reputable provider, the kind who could get you back in good standing, would have the most access to the best info. She would never give you the blacklist info, but MIGHT give you a way to prove yourself. For example, if there was a no-show report, she might agree to an appointment with a deposit