I have been reading these boards for a good while and I constantly see subjects pertaining to providers and faking orgasms. What I want to know is why is it so hard for some of you to believe that there are *gasp* actually providers who don't fake it? I look forward to my time with my friends to enjoy myself and receive pleasure. I always receive DATY a wonderful way for me to have multiples and I notice that my friends will ask me what positions do I prefer and I tell them the best ones that will make me have the biggest and best release. I love DFK. I love having my breasts licked and sucked. I get into all my times together with my friends and enjoy them. The only times I have where I do not enjoy myself is when someone's hygiene is bad or he is a jerk like trying to have unsafe fun in which case our time is over and I leave or he does. I have put off seeing newbies because I know that with my steady friends now I will always have a great time and have many releases and just a good time. I don't look at this as a job or as something to pay the bills. For me the best part is what happens between me and my friend. The money is a nice added bonus. I wake up excited and look forward to spending time with my friends. I call them friends because the term "client" or "customer" honestly makes me cringe. Why do a job if you can't have fun doing it? I have fun everyday doing what I do. So basically why does it seem impossible for some hobbyist to believe that some of us really do have fun?
Really, I got so excited I became my blonde self. Run girl....fast. LOL
not the rule. I think its a little too much to ask of a provider that meets a guy for the first time to have moist panties the minute he walks through the door. Civie world is different, she usually will know the guy even if they were just having drinks. There is already an attraction and some chemistry and thats why they are going further.
I'm not saying the hobbyist can't make the experience better for the provider or make it enjoyable, Im simply saying that its unrealistic for a hobbyist on his first meeting with a provider to expect her to be having these multiple O's
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You are really fortunate to do this and really enjoy it. Are you the exception? I don't think so. I have been with many providers, and the majority, probably the overwhelming majority enjoy the experience, often as much as I do. Am I being fooled? No, I definitely don't think so. The few times the women did not enjoy it, I really felt bad for them. So lighten up everybody; done properly the hobby is fun for all.