YOU WERE REALLY OFF BASE!
I recently contacted a provider to find out what her rates were. I asked her if her reviews were accurate and mentioned the handle name of the review. I did not say anything about the content of the review, just if it was accurate....I got a MAJOR lashing...was I really way off base? Her web page said to email for rates. I never mentioned anything sexual in my message...Just curious
YOU WERE REALLY OFF BASE!
It's fine to ask a lady's height, hair color and other similar innocuous questions, but asking if her reviews are "accurate" is an indirect way of asking if intercourse occurred and/or if certain sex acts occurred.
That's a big no-no.
Once, as we sat on the couch chatting, a new client asked if my reviews were accurate. I tried to laugh it off and said to remember everything was fictional in the reviews.
He asked again, and then I rose to ask him to leave, worried about LE. Finally he realized it was the wrong kind of question to ask, apologized, and changed the subject.
But it did get us off to a rocky start and it took me a while to feel comfortable with him. In his review of me, he said I seemed distant at first--can't imagine why, LOL.
You'll just need to trust that most of the TER reviews are reasonably accurate, since no provider will answer ANY question about sex, either directly or indirectly.