There is no personal benefit (that I know of) for a provider to give a whitelist. That being said everyone I've asked has done so after the first session. I use to request one in my follow up "thank you enjoyed meeting you" email. A P411 ok request made through the website is tracked by the company. If they give you one they get "points" which can be used to buy top ten and featured listings. If they refuse to give you an ok P411 wants to know why and they need to explain their decision to the company. This equates to more hassle which is why unless you act completely crazy receiving one is almost automatic.
I know people will answer: it depends. I am not asking in the case of a specific provider. I just wanna get some general idea about this issue, in order to act appropriately during an upcoming session.
Both provider and client opinions and suggestions are welcome!
Some will whitelist you after one visit if you impressed her as a gentleman. Some like to see you several times before they feel good about giving a whitelist and others never whitelist anyone. The only way to know is ask her.
Thanks DJ!
As follow-up to your answer, I am just wondering When is a good time to ask her? Especially when this is my first time seeing her.
Sorry if I am being stupid ... before I meet her for 1st time, could I ask her this question either by e-mail or text?
And what's a good and comfortable way to ask this question?
Your history rating is admirable for being honest but I don't think providers gonna give you a WL with those scores. Not to say you have to compromise your integrity in any way shape or form. But if you have to ask, "I enjoyed your company very much and if you feel I'm an upstanding whoremonger, please WL". You can polish it up a bit though. lol
As follow-up to your answer, I am just wondering When is a good time to ask her? Especially when this is my first time seeing her.
Sorry if I am being stupid ... before I meet her for 1st time, could I ask her this question either by e-mail or text?
And what's a good and comfortable way to ask this question?
When you're dressed and ready to leave after a good session is the time to ask. Remember that if you didn't really click together it might be useless to ask and some providers who have reviews don't know anything about TER and won't have a clue what you're talking about.
I've seen 2 Escorts
I asked them both about white-listing.
One said sure and did it, the other said maybe after another visit.
Just ask
I am a provider, I typically whitelist my gentlemen friends who are of the hobby, and were complete and total gentlemen who go above and beyond with the etiquette of the industry.
I always ask for a P411 Okay right after the session and no one has ever denied even after just one visit. For a white listing, I usually request this after a review has posted. If I didn't do a review, I don't usually bother. I know reviews and white listings are supposed to be mutually exclusive, but that's just my process. Once it posts, I'll write the lady and ask
I was going to say somewhat the same thing. A White List has limited value and some girls don't even consider them when screening. An "OK" on P411 has more value.
In both cases the time to ask as after the session. In fact, you can't ask for an OK on P411 until after you've seen her. It's a violation to ask beforehand.
I agree that P-411 OK seem to have more value. Have with P-411 sent out date requests and have had many providers respond back positively after seeing many P-411 ok and then Imlook and seethed they have not even opened my profile.
As I only recently established a TER identity I do not have any. As I left a recent provider on the way out I asked for a whitelist. Answer was write me a review with a score of x an x and you will receive one. Same provider tried to give me an
OK before I requested one and when I did request was on my home page within the hour. Someone seems to think a whitelist is more sacred. I do feel that whitelist made a good addition as not everyone is on P-411 but one canto a long time without bob hong safely there
a WL ref if it was based on the scores I gave her. In fact, I'd tell admin that she had done that. Don't know if they would do anything, but I would feel better knowing that admin knows about a provider wanting high scores in return for a WL referral.
LLAP,
Swim
the intent of white list referrals.
In my case, I typically offer it as a nice gesture after a review posts if it's one to my liking and/or someone I felt deserves it and there was something unique there. Or they aren't p411 verified and I know this could at least help them getting a next appnt with someone and it's my way of giving them an okay. But I don't typically whitelist and I certainly don't use it to screen.
I would keep in mind, reviews, okays and whitelist referrals are only nice gestures on behalf of those playing a part of this community. They are most certainly not required by either parry no matter how well the session goes. Some honor them and some don't. Take your pick.
T xx
Both provider and client opinions and suggestions are welcome!
That which has been given, can also be taken away.
Providers can remove whitelists after giving them, if the gent seems to be playing a bit shady after it was given. And yes, it does happen. I've done that too which is why I'm much more cautious on who I give my okay stamp to, if you will.
Play this game right every single time, and you should have no problems.
Good luck to you.
T xx
Swim - The real point I was trying to make is that in my experience asking via P-411 has all but been an automatic OK and as I keep reading here there is more credence to the OK's vs a whitelist which is seamingly much harder to obtain from a provider
There is no personal benefit (that I know of) for a provider to give a whitelist. That being said everyone I've asked has done so after the first session. I use to request one in my follow up "thank you enjoyed meeting you" email. A P411 ok request made through the website is tracked by the company. If they give you one they get "points" which can be used to buy top ten and featured listings. If they refuse to give you an ok P411 wants to know why and they need to explain their decision to the company. This equates to more hassle which is why unless you act completely crazy receiving one is almost automatic.