It is perhaps inevitable that such truly horrendous personal hygene is addressed in this forum. There was nothing in the Red Fox post about whether the provider even said a word to her offending clients, which would have been more effective than a short lecture to those of us who take pride in our tidiness. And: does this provider not have access to a computer? Plenty of our ladies post hygene notes without having to goad a client into doing it for them, unless of course the poster was the offender...
We didn't get any other providers chiming in on the Red Fox post below. Is it a substantial ongoing problem for this provider? And why for her and few else? If this poor woman --- and yes, we might deign to label her a skank --- is attracting nasty-ass scum, maybe she's missing a pattern in the big picture. There would certainly be other hygenic red flags: Dental work was mentioned, bad breath, dirty clothes, sloppy hair, body odor. Where there's smoke, there's fire. Would the screening process not continue on to the moment of the first meeting? We have all heard about providers meeting the guy and just saying, "No, I can't." So, while still getting someone else to complain on her behalf, this classy woman evidently will proceed into a sesh with a client with sub-par hygene.
How about you? Does seeing this woman sound...fun? As a matter of fact, that post a few days back about provider no-shows and near-no-shows? These issues could be related.
And finally, how many tries did it take to create the 200-Watt alias just for one imaginative post?
If you were going to share with us your bathing habits, why leave out the details about your Elmo bath toy?
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'ItsAlimentary' said this was a complaint of MORE than one provider. You 40-Watt because you don't like the candid subject matter are calling the plaintiffs "Skanks" and accusing the messenger of the crime. Is it any wonder why other providers are wary of joining in IA's thread, or this thread for that matter
Get any group of housewives together and they will start cackling about the skid marks in their husbands underwear. This is not an isolated occurrence suffered only by providers with less than adequate screening techniques. If you already practice a regimen of hygiene in that particular area the post was not directed at you. No matter what your economic, academic
or social station in life is they're no guarantee that your hygiene is acceptable for the situation. All IA was saying is if you haven't seriously thought about this area of personal hygiene before perhaps you should.
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it reminds me of the scene from an episode of Sex and the City where Miranda does laundry for her live in boyfriend and finds skidmarks in his underwear. Her response was something like, youve hit bottom sexually when you find your boyfriends skidmarks. ;P
I think its time to replace that bulb with a 100 watt. Mabe it was 40 watt who went to see the "Skank"?
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Does it occur to you that these may be agency girls who didn't get to personally screen their clients, but still had to come back with the cash anyway? Did you even notice that it wasn't a woman making the post, and the colorful examples may be the reporter's addition?
There's a reason why many providers do mention hygiene on their websites. They have had bad experiences with it. I've seen it mentioned before, mostly on regional boards. Usually there's one bonehead who always criticizes them for it like you did. Usually these guys take it somehow personally, identifying somehow with the client even though they had nothing in common except a for having a dick. The providers are then atttacked for their bad attitudes. As you did with "... does this woman sound... fun?"
Answer: she may be fun if you show up cleanly.
Your original criticism, though, takes the Twinkie. The woman must be a skank. Now you follow it up with this. At least those other guys were just kneejerk dimwits. With you, the more defensive you get, the dimmer you look.
BTW, since this is Zinaval writing I have another question: Is this one of the "creative concerns" you said I should have? Criticizing unknown women for their client's hygiene problems? I'll admit that it's creative. I think I'll leave that onerous task to you.
Even the most professional classy man can leak a bit. Please gentlemen and fellow whores, baby wipes are the answer. They're not just for babies.