"Stop and think about something for a minute. If you are with a provider who orgasm's from vaginal intercourse and you are Johnny Dong enough to get the job done then guess what, you are probably only the 5th - 10th guy that week to do that for her. Suffice to say the novelty wears off."
The novelty wears off?!?
I won't even address this.
I do want to point out that many women are multi-orgasmic, so why stop unless she asks you to?
.....from penis vaginal intercourse. What should the guy do? Stop and just cuddle, or just continue the action.
O.k. I'll start with I'm presuming you are talking about with a provider correct? If you are with a civvie you can stop and cuddle if you're really looking to rack up some brownie points. However if you are with a provider you may want to be polite and slow down so she can "enjoy" it, however there is no need to stop and cuddle.
Stop and think about something for a minute. If you are with a provider who orgasm's from vaginal intercourse and you are Johnny Dong enough to get the job done then guess what, you are probably only the 5th - 10th guy that week to do that for her. Suffice to say the novelty wears off.
Stop and cuddle!?! LOL, I love that. It's kind of like asking the question what do you do when approaching and amber light?
Slow down, or speed up? Speed up of course!!
Stay well and keep delivering those vaginal orgasm's.
rotflmao
please don't encourage him 
Sorry Bill but there are people out there that appreciate my wit, intelect and intelligence. Don't be a hater because you don't get as many laughs as me.
Although for every laugh I get I get ten flames for being an idiot and adding nothing to the boards and their topics, but hey all the great ones have their critics : )
Is there anything I can get you in the penalty box?
how about a file and hax saw
"Stop and think about something for a minute. If you are with a provider who orgasm's from vaginal intercourse and you are Johnny Dong enough to get the job done then guess what, you are probably only the 5th - 10th guy that week to do that for her. Suffice to say the novelty wears off."
The novelty wears off?!?
I won't even address this.
I do want to point out that many women are multi-orgasmic, so why stop unless she asks you to?
Will the REAL Robertini please stand up?!
(and if I'm wrong... forgive me Tinibro... I got nuthin but love and respect for ya, but this is really a struggle to keep from laughing coffee out my nostrils)
I'm just getting goin'. Once I start I'm going to have a bunch of them. I do think you're wrong to assume that we don't have many orgasms from intercourse. Maybe you were thinking, positions? Some are easier than others, missionary always works the best for me but I'm still needing a towel for cowgirl, doggie, sideways, reverse cowgirl,hanging upside down from a jungle hammock, standing up and whatever corkscrew position we can get outselves into. One of my most fun situations was at a fetish factory Alter Ego party in Ft. Lauderdale. Please, don't assume I'm a dom. I am NOT, it's just a very kewl party. I got to dress up in leather and/or vinyl and bring my flogger once a month. LOL They have a killer party and while it's NOT a swing night sometimes hanky panky happens. I had fettered this gorgeous young British guy to the wall. My backside was glued to him and this other gorgeous young thing was glued to the front of me. Now, we were not doing the deed because we're all dressed but somehow, someone managed to tear a hole in my fishnet pantyhose. BIG puddle on the floor. GREAT fun! I guess I need to head back down to that party soon. Anyone want to go?
Naughtily smiling,
Anneke
Not really. I don't get offended. But I'm not as stupid as this guy. If you haven't noticed I don't ask question on this topic. I know what to do. I do ask questions about society, work, politics, people, culture, religion, and everything that is confussing.
But that's ok if you think I'm stupid.
he just doesn't know. I wouldn't know if I hadn't find out with the help of providers. If there were no providers or if I were back to being younger, I would still not knowing. I guess I had to get even. He got good answers from the others. Thanks.
For me, it feels best during my O if that hard penis stops and stays deep inside of me for a few seconds, rather than continuing to thrust in and out.
Don't stop to cuddle (unless you're done too).
Would this preference depend on whether you're multiorgasmic or not? This brings on a different question. Are most women multiorgasmic or is it rare for them to be? I mean waves after waves (minutes or seconds apart) of orgasms. If you're multiorgasmic wouldn't you rather he keeps on going, not necessarily thrusting in and out but not stopping and staying still.
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It's likely that the resistance of a hard cock against the spasming muscles of the vagina is what makes the stillness vs. movement so nice...
well, at least for me LOL!
I believe that most women are multi-orgasmic, it's a matter of if they and their partners have tried or not. Even then and even so this wouldn't affect how nice the stillness would be.
Another thought - even us multi-orgasmic ladies are not always so every day. Sometimes the intensity of one is more than enough. Sometimes the body is not as into it as we are. Sometimes we are not into it as much as the body may be.
(shrug)
I'm interested in what other ladies think of your question, it's a good one!
: )
xoxo,
Sola
The leadup to penetration probaly determines whether a woman will orgasm more than the penetration itself. Find the right lady and spend a large amount of time on foreplay before penetration, you will be rewarded.
estate terms. Couldn't agree more.
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Why don't you take a clue from the girl in question. All are different and she will lead you the way she wants. My SO gets very sensitive and wants you to stop and will put her hand on my chest and will lock her legs around me to pull me in. I've seen a couple provideres that are similar and others say slam harder. Only the girl in question can make the call on what she wants. Look for her hints and role with it.
that all the facetious comments have come from men so far.
In direct reply to your question, my answer is "Neither". Here is what I like: for the guy to hold still and rock or rotate his pelvis slightly, usually with guidance from me (by putting my hands on his butt). I like to be the one who moves as I'm the one who's having the experience.
But I guess that each woman will have her own individual reply so if in doubt, ask her.
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