In my first review of my first provider, I said that she gave me the best BJ of my life...and that was actually true at the time. A more experience hobbyist might have not thought so, but at that time I only had 1 other woman in the last 20 years to compare her to and that other woman can't stand giving BJ's at all (at least not to me).
There's also a bit of subjectivity to reviews that I just can't explain away. My last provider was so damn gorgeous (to me), that she probably could have bobbit-zied me and I would have thought it was a great BJ. Like as not she would not have have the same effect on others, even doing the extact same things.
I hope this isn’t to graphic our out of place for discussion here. If it is just delete it. I'm new here.
I am returning to the ‘hobby’ after a long absence. I have used TER and the others to do my research to try and prevent a bad experience. It has been very helpful but I have run into something that puzzles me.... BBBJ’s and CBJ’s. There are many here that report their experience as the ‘best’ they’ve every had... WTF... In my former incarnation and the limited experience since my return and my private life I’ve had over fifty different ladies performing BJ’s with maybe three that were really good. This is not bragging, just letting you know where I come from. I know my experience is limited, especially of late compared, to many here.
What I’m puzzled about is how many refer to some of the ladies as ‘the best’ when I’ve seen the same ladies and found them ‘average’ at best. Are we overdoing it in our reviews? Or are some of the reviewers just not used to a good BJ? Do they know what a BJ is? I know its a subjective review, but it can’t be that much different.
This is not a criticism of the ladies! or the reviewers. I used to see some ladies regularly that were reviewed as the ‘best’ of their time, a few are still around but I didn’t see them for that alone they were just average to me then. There were other ‘qualities’ that I saw them for.
This is not a flame on anyone. Just trying to open a discussion on the subject, if that’s allowed. Don’t need to name names or flame or praise any provider or reviewer. Just what do you look for? What makes for a good oral for you? Or if some of the providers want to participate, what do you think gets your clients going?
It's not unique to TER, of course. I've been disappointed a number of times over the years during my own experiences with ladies who had been described with superlatives by others. Tastes differ, but sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, if you know what I mean. After awhile, you begin to doubt the reviews -- and perhaps the motives -- of some of the posters. As far as the last part of your question goes, its about the tongue and being sure the boys get the attention they deserve, too. Afterall, they're the ones that have to finish the job!
Grade inflation is part of the story. The other part is perspective. People have different preferences. Some guys may like a full-speed assault of a bj, some may like it slow and light, some others may have different preferences.
Plus someone who has just had his first provider bj (or second or even third) is going to think it is wonderful even if it was below the par for most other providers. After the 50 that you have had, you know your preferences and dislikes a lot better than a newbie.
Just my 2 cents.
In my first review of my first provider, I said that she gave me the best BJ of my life...and that was actually true at the time. A more experience hobbyist might have not thought so, but at that time I only had 1 other woman in the last 20 years to compare her to and that other woman can't stand giving BJ's at all (at least not to me).
There's also a bit of subjectivity to reviews that I just can't explain away. My last provider was so damn gorgeous (to me), that she probably could have bobbit-zied me and I would have thought it was a great BJ. Like as not she would not have have the same effect on others, even doing the extact same things.
I totally understand your concern. I have a hard time with Reviewers who rate a massage with HJ release only as a 9 or 10 session...
You have to consider the source. When you are checking reviews of a provider you need to read the reviewer's other reviews. If you're lucky eventually you'll come across reviews of someone you have seen yourself. Then you have a basis for comparison. Some reviewers are reliable and some are not.