Las Vegas
The answer is me!
Most of the ladies and a few of the men are under moderation. Moderation is when all your posts hve to be approved by the moderator before appearing on the board. I get to posts as soon as I can. However this is an unpaid position so other things come first 
I usually approve posts three or more times a day. If you happen to post just before I approve messages, it will appear almost immediately. However the wait can be as long as 24 hours.
Thank you Mike....
I had no idea....sorry if I came of sounding rude, but I guess my sarcasm sometimes sounds the wrong way,...hey, are they ever going to add facial expressions on this board?...sometimes it is kind of hard to express yourself, even though, well, I think you know what I am getting at.....lol...
thanx again Mike!