So I had a really bad break-up in college that I never really got over and as a result haven't been intimate with a woman in at least 9 years. I finally gave in and hired a massage girl--was too nervous to go full service the first time, but am working up to it.
The session went OK--she was very nice and was pretty but not really my type. I was actually supposed to meet her roommate but she was in class. But I felt really at ease and feel pretty good about the whole experience and had a nice conversation and more laughs than expected. I thought I would be miserable but I feel like it was a really therapeutic experience for someone who's been alone so long just to have some sexual contact. Anyway, on my way out she wrote what she said was her "real" name and a direct number for her on a piece of paper and handed it to me. I know it's probably not her real-real name, but what was the purpose of this? So I can get in touch with her more quickly for sessions or is it a "direct line" for all the girls in the house so they know I'm OK (i tjhink there are more than two)? Also, is it alright to text her to ask for references or about meeting up with her roommate? Wans't sure if massage-only girls are ok as rewferenves. She told me "my roommate is nice and I told the girls in the house you're 'cool' so it should be easier to get in touch." I was kind of dazed by the experience and forgot to ask for more details I guess...haha. Just wondering what all of this usually implies. I realize the nature of the profession, but I still feel kind of weird asking her about meeting her roommate even though I think she's probably more my type. I guess I shouldn't but just needed a little push from people who know better. Thanks ! and sorry for the question stampede...hahby giving you her direct number, she cuts out the house & she keeps the whole amount.
but as to the questions you raise:
1. It is not at all unusual for a gal to give a guy the slip of paper with her number and "real" name. (I had one gal give me 3 "real" names over the course of ten years until I got her real "real" name finally and only then because we were flying together.
The reason is that she likes you enough to encourage you to come back to her as opposed to missing out on you the next time you called the original number. She might also be trying to cut out the middle man in the equation.
More often than not, the gals I have seen who gave me their numbers worked out extremely well.
2. You can certainly inquire about meeting her roommate. She won't be thrilled at the prospect of not seeing you, but if she is at all professional and wants to maintain a decent relationship with the other gals in this house (to say nothing of you), then she ought to be accommodating. So try it. The worst she can do is not cooperate.
3. Some gals will take massage-only gals as references especially if they have a website and reviews, but others won't. It doesn't hurt to ask. The worst is that they'll just say no.
It is not unnatural to feel a bit weird about wanting to see her roommate, but don't let that stop you. The future belongs to those who ask for it, after all.
Let us know how it goes.
(And see a councilor about that break-up. 9 years is a very long time to pine over something like that.)
this and are willing to act as references for others.