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Do Not Send Pictures and ID to A Strangerangry_smile
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That is a terrible idea. I would not send a photo and personal ID to a complete stranger under any circumstances, no matter what your personal situation is. Not sure where you are located, but there should be dozens of P411 providers or BP providers who don't require that information.

So I'm thinking about visiting a provider the first time. The only thing that worries me is that I'm not a P411 member, nor is the provider. However she is well reviewed(30 reviews) and has a personal page along with Backpage ads. Some of her pictures suggest she is the real deal as well. Also, what do I do when giving a donation? Do I just place it on a table where she can see it? I'd have it in an envelope. I sent this provider an e-mail, asking about how she handles newbies. Her process involves sending a picture of my ID and a face shot proving it is me.  

If you have any comments or suggestions, that be great.

Thank you-Jis3cool321

Place it where she can see it and don't talk about it. Pictures and IDs are subject to your comfort level and how much you have to loose if your name and image end up on the internet linked to prostitution, I personally wouldn't do that.

Many gals have very specific instructions on how to handle the donation envelope.  If so, follow those instructions to the letter.

In any case, do not mention the envelope in any way.

The most common practice is to leave it in a very obvious spot.  I generally leave it on the keyboard of their laptop computer if they have one opened up and sitting out in the open.

Many gals ask that it be left by the sink in the bathroom so that they can go in there and count the money discreetly.

well as a photo.  At a minimum, cover critical information on the ID.  Do you really want your photo potentially put anywhere on the internet?  I'm not saying it will happen but it could happen.

It might be easier and safer to join P411.

.........as LE, and others whom may cause harm, have id's.  

     If she really is determined to have your id, before seeing her, make sure that it is sent to a generic account; not her work e-mail acoount.  I have had gentlemen send me blank e-mails from their place of employment, but they send it to a generic e-mail address; not my Kelly address.

Hugs and Keep Safe,
Kelly

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That is a terrible idea. I would not send a photo and personal ID to a complete stranger under any circumstances, no matter what your personal situation is. Not sure where you are located, but there should be dozens of P411 providers or BP providers who don't require that information.

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