Thanks for the advice. That's good to know if I ever do travel with someone, but in this case the provider and I would probably just be at an upscale hotel nearby.
If I make an outcall appointment with a provider for a weekend (two days), is it better to book a room for two people or just one person? I'm just wondering because we might be going in and out of the room and around the hotel. What is normally the best approach? Thanks so much in advance!
......your companion as a guest. This is important if you wish for her to be able to sign things to the room, she forgets her key, etc. Also, the hotel room will be stocked for two people; not one.
Now, this of course will not work if the lady does not share her true name, but I would never travel with a gentleman without him knowing my true name.
This is my opinion, and everyone operates differently. Please do not shoot the messenger.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
Thanks for the advice. That's good to know if I ever do travel with someone, but in this case the provider and I would probably just be at an upscale hotel nearby.
It is also a good idea for both of you to be wearing wedding rings, just to make it all look legit.
It would be obvious to even a casual observer that he was MUCH too happy to possibly be there with his wife. lol
I agree with Kelly, sign in as a couple, in this age of the 21 century the fact that you have different last names won't raise a single eyebrow, and it will eliminate any embarrassing moments like if she loses her key or wants to sign for a bottle of water in the gift shop, or even tries to access the pool area in some resorts.
She should be say things like:
Did you remember to check the oven before we left?
Be sure we don't get a room near the elevator.
I bet you forgot your bathing suit.
I'm sure my cousin could have found us a better place than this.
and so on and so forth.
Hum a few bars and I'll try to fake it.
(Yes, that's an old one, I know.)
....I simply find a chair nearby to sit in. I find hovering a bit invasive. I assure you, hotels do not care who is with whom, or why they are there.
As I have said in previous posts; act like you belong, and all will be fine!
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
I've done that with no issue. You'll get two keys, hotel is paid their due, and nobody has any reason to question why you have someone else in a room only let to one person.
If your plans include separate time using hotel facilities (spa, bar, etc) then she might need to have signature rights (and name) for the room. But if no separate time then she can remain anonymous and not have her name linked to yours in the hotel registry.
In some areas it's illegal to have extra people in the room. It may be illegal to have two unmarried folks in the same room. It may be illegal for two unmarried folks to have sex (but not three or more; weird) in a hotel room.
and simply don't worry about it. I've never encountered a situation where a hotel required more than my info to register. With two keys and room number, signing things to the room has never been an issue. You are a registered guest of the hotel and have every right to be there, and to have your gf stay with you. It has nothing to do with the "hobby" unless you make it so.
For the truly risk averse, sharing a real first name might make things easier and more "natural" if something does happen to come up, and I agree with Kelly that for an extended stay together sharing names is probably the safest course of action.
Valet or public park and vehicles don't need to be registered with the desk for a hotel parking lot, and that paper trail is avoided.
Just relax and have a weekend together with your "lady friend". I would never pretend to be married or feel the need to "cover up" anything - it's totally unnecessary. Men and women spend time together in hotels all the time - whether married or not.
if you're talking about a business person's hotel where there's no spa or other services that you or she might use. You'll probably be together when you dine, etc., so she not going to be charging things to the room (any you should be careful if she wants to!). If you're at a resort setting, then yes, put her on the room but discuss expectations first.
So they know you'll have a guest... provide the second key. A real first name is enough. I've traveled with civie GFs way back & signed us as MR & MRS.