start your homework right here by reading the Newbie/Self Help Manual that is linked on this page.
The more you know, the further you'll go.
Hey folks, meeting with a provider for the first time and have a question regarding the donation. The provider asked to have the donation in a envelope in the open. Ok got it no problem. The provider said they have a 200 special. I assume I provide them with the donation before anything else right? The other thing i'm worried about is whether that is the end of it regarding the donation. A friend said that the donation that is asked for on her website is just for her to show up and then another donation is asked for. Is that how it works or is the donation that she is asking for is end of story? Thanks!
You don't want to see her. 200 to meet and more for some action?
Just see a real provider, its all inclusive. You'll know, if and when you get in the door, what needs to be in the envelope.
I'm sorry I wasn't clear enough. She does not say if it is 200 to meet and more for action. She just says 200. In general if a girl says $200 outcall on their website does that mean that is the total assuming you don't want anything special
The rate posted SHOULD be all-inclusive unless she/they state otherwise but there are many agencies & indy ladies who do upsell like crazy.
Her "special" does not mean she is doing anything special, it is just a SALE PRICE and should still be all-inclusive regardless of the amount. Some may say that at that rate the likelihood of getting upcharged is higher and that may be true; but I ran a "special" for the same rate you mentioned just a month ago (and I NEVER upsell) so this point alone is not conclusive.
Just research this person/phone#/emails as thoroughly as possible and ask around on your local board prior to taking the plunge. 
If she has no reviews, then you shouldn't be seeing her in the first place.
In general the donation is "all inclusive" unless she upsells for something special, such as dressing up as a chicken, or Greek perhaps. This is the whole reason TER exists in the first place, so you can just read her reviews and know for sure what you are getting into. It's also the reason that we tell all the newbs NOT to see unreviewed women. As I said before, and others have also said, if she has no reviews that can plainly answer your question, CANCEL your appointment and find a woman with plenty of reviews with whom you will have no doubts.
Yes, one places the envelope somewhere (e.g., on an end table) at the first opportune moment.
Since this is your first time, I would strongly recommend that you visit with a well-reviewed provider (e.g., here on TER) who has a website that clearly explains things. If you and your friend are reading the same website & reaching different conclusions, then this person is probably not your best choice for your first date.
And, if I may, stay away from the "specials" until you get some experience. I am not saying anything against this particular provider but the majority of providers have a single menu.
And, yes, the single donation is all that is requested (unless you announce that you want a variation off the menu - again not something you necessarily want to try on your coming out party)
Just the answer I was looking for. Thank you
It is suppose to be all-inclusive. What she lists is to be the final rate. If she upsells, you'll know by the reviews (or pm the reviewers she has seen). Stay away from upsells.
A Special could just mean she is drumming up business, trying to stay busy. All the good gals that have great reviews don't upsell.
...THIS provider or with ANY provider? If it's your first time with a provider, I suggest you cancel. You haven't done your homework properly. $200. for an outcall to your place sounds like she is a Backpage girl; no good for a newbie.
It also sounds like she doesn't have any TER reviews, otherwise you'd know if her fee was all-inclusive.
She may want the envelope in the open so she can "give it to her driver." That means she will take off with your money and won't come back.
Stick to well-reviewed providers on TER and do your homework.
start your homework right here by reading the Newbie/Self Help Manual that is linked on this page.
The more you know, the further you'll go.
Is it a Special RATE or is it a Shorter time interval so she can rush you through. In my area, that's about the minimum for an Hour F/S though it is creeping up slightly. You can ask about the time interval "For an hour of her time". You can't ask about services... that's in reviews. Yes, you'll need VIP to read the full reviews.
Avoid anyone who upsells. It just rewards bad behavior. The ad venue doesn't matter but don't start with the ads. Start on TER, Most Recent Reviews for your area... you will check the ads as part of your sorting out who you want to see.