Is it just a indicator that a hobbyist is not someone with a frigging badge, or is there some other meaning attached to it. Also, do you have to review someone to get them to white list you?
...rely solely on whitelists but use them as only one factor in screening.
You don't have to review a provider to be whitelisted. It's not meant to be traded for a good review but that happens quite a bit anyway.
You don't have to ask to be whitelisted but you can. Some providers won't whitelist you after only one visit.
I asked for a reference and I also tried to set up a one hour appointment and zero response. I am not sure if she is mad, or just something is going on and she is not available for comment.
...business. If one merchant doesn't want your business, move on to a different merchant who knows how to run her enterprise and is eager for your business. Move on.
but also that you are good guy for someone else to see, and not batshit crazy. It's like a reference on Date-Check or an OK of P411. Some providers won't use a WL referral as a lone form of reference, but will want more info like a direct reference from another provider.
Reviews are not necessary to get a provider to WL you, but if you had a good time with her and want her to vouch for you, why not post a review?
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I just wanted to clarify that from a provider point of view.
I have whitelisted a gent before - and he deserved it! But I just wanted to point out no system is foolproof, and whitelist means a provider said you are ok. It does not mean that it cannot be fake, or manipulated. It's not hard to buy an anonymous membership or three, throw up some ads on bp, review those ads, and whitelist yourself.
Same for a crazy person, lol.
Ladies, if you are using whitelist for screening, and not just a component on it, please really look at dates, providers (if you know of them, ect.) And stay safe!
I never would have thought of doing that, you just wrote an instruction manual on how to defeat one of the screening methods used by many ladies.
You may not of, but others have. And not just 'thought' of it, either.
Perhaps people should do a little google search about records and issues in the past. They are clarified now (I think) but a provider who uses whitelist only her for a reference system is asking for trouble.