Newbie - FAQ

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A good friend asked me for some pointers on how to approach his first double and I gave him the following suggestions/rules that are IMHO. He suggested that I share this with the Newbie Board, so here it is.  Much of this credit goes out to another great hobbyist (GQman42), who is a legend and offered up similar advice when I was going for my first double. Sorry for the length, but take from it what you want and I welcome others to add to it. The more the merrier. It's just my own set of guidelines.

Here goes:  names of providers are fictitious  

Always be sure to have seen at least one of the providers, never do a double with two strangers - you want to have some kind of relationship or history with one of them who will be acting as the lead girl, most likely. If you can see both solo before hand, even better.  

It's important that they've both done a double before and are REALLY into girls and not just doing FMF - you want MFF - if you get what I mean.  The best doubles are when both ladies are into each other and not just two girls sucking your cock at the same time, as much fun as that is.  

They better both like DATY, tit worship, DFK with girls, etc.,  and having another girl do those things to her too. Part of what you're going to want to experience is watching them from the sidelines.  DON'T feel the need to constantly be in the middle of everything.  You're paying for a show too here.

Read their solo reviews and hopefully any previous doubles reviews  they've been in - either with each other, or with other girls.  For instance, I was with Jane and Jill.  There wasn't a review of the two of them doubling as they'd only ever done one before on the day before I saw them, but both had doubles reviews with other girls that I studied to learn about their tendencies. I had seen Jane before for an extended date.  

When you are in the middle of things,  ALWAYS keep both girls engaged.  Even if you're stroking the hair or arm of the other girl you're not fucking at the moment.  I made that mistake and got too into Jill and Jane was basically there on the sidelines waiting her turn, so I had to quickly pull her in to be sure she was having fun too. You could be getting CG from one girl, then have the other girl come over for some DFK (both you and the girl on top of you) while that's happening.   Don't leave anyone out, unless they need a break and just want to watch.  

It's a marathon, don't feel the need to rush into things - You've got two hours  (my minimum time recommendation) and that's a lot of time.  Be sure there's going to be refreshments there - water and some snacks.    Most importantly, lots and lots of condoms.  Be sure they have them or know that you're bringing your own.  I'd say you better have at least 8-10 with you because each time you switch girls, you're going to need a fresh one.

If only one does greek and the other doesn't, don't expect the one who does to perform that if the other girls doesn't.  Same for rimming.  Some of that really intimate stuff is private and girls don't like to do it if the other one isn't.  

Biggest rule, have FUN. This is every guy's fantasy to be rolling around with 2 beautiful women. Just go with the flow. The ladies will be your guides to pleasure.  

Those are just ideas for the aspiring newbie when approaching his first time.  


-- Modified on 2/25/2015 6:27:58 PM

This was helpful for me to read as a provider.  Thank you for taking the time to share this!  

Having enjoyed other ladies, I can DEFINITELY agree that chemistry amongst the femmes is important.  If a lady is not into me and is there to mainly interact with the gent, it blocks my ability to share my energy with either and, subsequently, for the experience to flow.

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What you recommend is wonderful, but guys have to understand that most ladies offering threesomes won't make your cut. If they do, it is likely going to be very expensive.

Its great to desire and look for the perfect experience, just understand that between the two ladies even if they have full menus, and are really bi-sexual not everything is going to happen on your first attempt.  

Best advice is to see both ladies individually first and make sure that they've worked together before.

I agree, but if you want a true threesome, it's best to be sure they have both done bi experiences before, otherwise you'll just end up having two girls to have sex with at once and only one dick.  Not that this is anything bad!

I held out for my scenario, and yes, I dropped a TON of coin for 3 hours as one of them was a national 'rock-star' level touring provider. But it was three hours I'll never forget.  The other lady, who was the girl I knew originally and the organizer, is no longer providing, at least in this country.  

I only wish I was able to review that session, but the touring girl asked me not to and that's ok.  We still see each other regularly.  



-- Modified on 2/26/2015 4:45:03 PM

FC friendly, then you don't have to stop to switch condoms.

Using FCs in a threesome is awesome! Being able to move freely from one partner to the other without having to worry about constantly changing condoms elevates the experience to new levels ( at least for me .... and I would guess many of my fellow gents who frequent this board.  :

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