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No it doesn't matter
Superbad 401 reads
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i don't have that issue of height disparity, being 6'3", but don't worry about it.  Unless you plan on taking the lady out in public, height won't matter much in the bedroom.  

Besides, just having a 5" heel does not increase a woman's height by 5". It's only lifting her heel by that height. If the shoe doesn't have a platform where it actually lifts the toe and arch part of the shoe by 5", it's only going to increase their height marginally.

And no, I'm not a foot fetishist

TownKid591802 reads

Hello in society you don't really see many couples dating where the man is the short one and the woman is the tall one, so I'm wondering in this type of business does height matter much? I'm around 5'6 and I found a couple of providers that fit my taste but are 5'10. Now lets say they wear 5 inch heels that makes them around 6'3 or 4. Now would that be awkward for the provider?  
And another thing I want to add I don't know if this is true but I'm assuming providers that are tall usually get clients that around the same height and their packages most likely fit their proportions.  
So does height matter?

Zangari613 reads

Posted By: TownKid59
Hello in society you don't really see many couples dating where the man is the short one and the woman is the tall one, so I'm wondering in this type of business does height matter much? ....Now lets say they wear 5 inch heels ---snip---  
 Just in reading your posts here, your primary concerns seem to be (1) Skype sessions with providers & (2) their five inch heels.
You're a newbie entering the illegal black market of the sex trade.  You have a lot more to worry about than Skype & high heels.  You're locking in on the wrong things and I see trouble ahead for you.  Sorry,  --z

TownKid59486 reads

What I meant in my previous thread about the use of skype, I don't mean the main service skype offers which is voice chat and video chat, I meant the system that allows you to use your skype account as a secondary phone(make actual calls). I wanted to know if anyone had experience and if they would recommend it as a secondary phone. I know there's a lot more to worry about I just wanted to know if height was an issue similar to the age of the client, like some providers only see men who are older than a certain age.

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Posted By: TownKid59
Hello in society you don't really see many couples dating where the man is the short one and the woman is the tall one, so I'm wondering in this type of business does height matter much? ....Now lets say they wear 5 inch heels ---snip---  
   
  Just in reading your posts here, your primary concerns seem to be (1) Skype sessions with providers & (2) their five inch heels.  
 You're a newbie entering the illegal black market of the sex trade.  You have a lot more to worry about than Skype & high heels.  You're locking in on the wrong things and I see trouble ahead for you.  Sorry,  --z      

GaGambler490 reads

Not to mention that heels don't add a single inch to a lady's height once she is horizontal in bed with you.

what women in this business DO find a turnoff is rude, smelly, cheap, etc. Short is nowhere on that list.

So if you have ever had that fantasy of banging that long tall blonde that never would give you the time of day in high school, here is your chance. In this world the Chihuahua really does finally get to fuck the Great Dane. Go for it. lol

Telluwhat469 reads

I'm your height and have had great fun with women several inches taller. In P4P they couldn't care less. You'll make up the inches elsewhere.

Superbad402 reads

i don't have that issue of height disparity, being 6'3", but don't worry about it.  Unless you plan on taking the lady out in public, height won't matter much in the bedroom.  

Besides, just having a 5" heel does not increase a woman's height by 5". It's only lifting her heel by that height. If the shoe doesn't have a platform where it actually lifts the toe and arch part of the shoe by 5", it's only going to increase their height marginally.

And no, I'm not a foot fetishist

In the few instances where a gal was higher, I don't recall any problems with that.

TwoMints436 reads

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uFmv22ghzQw  

All kidding aside, there are a numerous positions to have sex in, any height difference can be over come by finding the position that works best between the two parties.  Being on the other end of the equation, I find that mish doesn't work so well in some cases mostly do to my lack of flexibility and ummm size....

height doesn't matter.  I have been with several ladies taller than my 5-8, and never had a problem with them.

Swim

How tall you are doesn't matter to most of the ladies, what matters is that you are clean, on time and a gentelman who doesn't try to push her limits or short her on the fee.
 

Posted By: TownKid59
Hello in society you don't really see many couples dating where the man is the short one and the woman is the tall one, so I'm wondering in this type of business does height matter much? I'm around 5'6 and I found a couple of providers that fit my taste but are 5'10. Now lets say they wear 5 inch heels that makes them around 6'3 or 4. Now would that be awkward for the provider?  
 And another thing I want to add I don't know if this is true but I'm assuming providers that are tall usually get clients that around the same height and their packages most likely fit their proportions.  
 So does height matter?  

Posted By: TownKid59
Hello in society you don't really see many couples dating where the man is the short one and the woman is the tall one, so I'm wondering in this type of business does height matter much? I'm around 5'6 and I found a couple of providers that fit my taste but are 5'10. Now lets say they wear 5 inch heels that makes them around 6'3 or 4. Now would that be awkward for the provider?  
 
I'm not 5'10" but I am taller than you so I feel fairly qualified to answer your questions from my own point of view.  Other ladies' opinions may differ, though.  
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When I dated (gave up on that for now, lol) I preferred men who are shorter than me.  But most women my own height like someone their own height or taller..... but that is DATING, which is an entirely different ballgame.  This P4P, and I don't care how much taller than me a client is.   It's all a level playing field when you're doing the horizontal mambo, anyways.
I would never turn someone away due to his height.  Age, yes.   But height, religion, color, ethnicity, etc? Nah.    
As a girly-girl who like to wear heels at all times, being significantly taller has only been awkward when the man in question has made it so.  Some guys are insecure or intimidated by women who tower over them, and like to make unkind remarks or attempt to be funny about it.... to which I reply: nothing.  And an awkward silence ensues.
 
Posted By: TownKid59
And another thing I want to add I don't know if this is true but I'm assuming providers that are tall usually get clients that around the same height and their packages most likely fit their proportions.  
 So does height matter?  
Most of my clients are my height or shorter.  A lot of taller-than-average men prefer petite women.

TownKid59467 reads

Thank you that's what I wanted, an opinion of a provider who is tall. Thank you.

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl
 
   
Posted By: TownKid59
Hello in society you don't really see many couples dating where the man is the short one and the woman is the tall one, so I'm wondering in this type of business does height matter much? I'm around 5'6 and I found a couple of providers that fit my taste but are 5'10. Now lets say they wear 5 inch heels that makes them around 6'3 or 4. Now would that be awkward for the provider?    
   
   
 I'm not 5'10" but I am taller than you so I feel fairly qualified to answer your questions from my own point of view.  Other ladies' opinions may differ, though.    
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 When I dated (gave up on that for now, lol) I preferred men who are shorter than me.  But most women my own height like someone their own height or taller..... but that is DATING, which is an entirely different ballgame.  This P4P, and I don't care how much taller than me a client is.   It's all a level playing field when you're doing the horizontal mambo, anyways.  
 I would never turn someone away due to his height.  Age, yes.   But height, religion, color, ethnicity, etc? Nah.    
 As a girly-girl who like to wear heels at all times, being significantly taller has only been awkward when the man in question has made it so.  Some guys are insecure or intimidated by women who tower over them, and like to make unkind remarks or attempt to be funny about it.... to which I reply: nothing.  And an awkward silence ensues.  
   
   
Posted By: TownKid59
And another thing I want to add I don't know if this is true but I'm assuming providers that are tall usually get clients that around the same height and their packages most likely fit their proportions.    
  So does height matter?  
   
 Most of my clients are my height or shorter.  A lot of taller-than-average men prefer petite women.
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But you obviously do. It's all psychological. Get that nonsense out of your head and focus in on having a great time with a beautiful woman. Because as long as you check out well with her and you have cash in your hand, then it's game on.

Fitting each others proportions... dude. Your member in her holes. Done.

Does it matter to you?
I'm a very short guy - shorter than you - and I've found the natural fit of women plus or minus only a couple inches from my own height is the best - things just line up so damn naturally well that way! :o)  And since I'm just a short cuddly fellow, ladies in this biz find me completely non-intimidating (not to mention charming and irresistible, ha ha) which helps put them at ease with me right away.
I've been with a woman who was about 8 inches taller, and learned that that was just a bit toooo much of a difference for me.  So, the more you do this, the more your taste will evolve (who knows, YOU may end up gravitating to women a foot taller and a hundred lbs more! lol!).  But the nice thing is, this is completely up to you - no lady will care about this

The only time I've had an issue with it was when I had a client who was 6'8", which made things a little difficult. I doubt there are too many ladies out there who are a foot and a half taller than you, though.

I have not really found it to be an issue. If you make the height difference awkward then she will feel awkward about it. Otherwise, it will be fine. Just keep in mind that certain positions might be a bit more difficult (or easier) due to the height difference.

me that height doesn't matter when we are horizontal on the bed.  She was right.  FWIW, my ATF is also a foot shorter than me.

As you have no doubt read, all that matters is that you have the money, that you are clean and that you are respectful, that is what is so great about this little sport.

I am also vertically challenged and my wife is 5'11'.   It does not bother me although I have to admit that when she wears heels we look pretty darned silly.  It is even funnier when my sister-in-law, 6'1", takes me for a spin on the dance floor, I look fucking ridiculous, but really, who cares?

jiggy87362 reads

Unless you are a giant, it doesn't really matter... at most you will be a foot or foot and a half taller (or maybe shorter).

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