But I think she's a guy.....
New to the scene and hobby. Need heip! Wondering if it is safer to entertain at a hotel or motel?
Do the providers have a preference? Never partied before and need guidance. any info would be appreciated
Personal preference: nice hotel. I don't do incall at the moment, and it's much nicer to visit a friend in a pleasant, clean, and classy environment. I also feel as though motels are just stings waiting to happen.
As excited one might be you should wait in your car until uou are given the room number. Then I always give directions to the elevators.
If a provider is reputable and knows what she is doing then going to see her for Incall is A-OK.
...make it easier for LE to see the traffic to your room.
You should try decent motels until you get more experience and feel comfortable checking into nicer hotels. Stay away from the low end motels that BackPagers prefer. The advantage of good motels, apart from affordable rates, is that they generally have several side entrances that allow for more discrete entry by clients. As you get more experienced, get good hotels but avoid those that require key card entry. Most clients do not like standing around in the lobby like a dope waiting for you (or a friend) to come and get them.
where the rooms do not open to the outside. You want a place with rooms opening to a hallway. As also mentioned, it makes it more difficult for LE to see the traffic going in and out of your room. Many providers ask guys to host outcall at a 3-star or better hotel, and follow that advice for their own incall room.
Swim
Someone mentioned that the larger the hotel or motel the better because it is easier to blend in. I was also told to stay away from places that require a card key for elevators.
And I'd also recommend avoiding hotels with large atriums that allow everyone to see the comings and goings of your room.
I say this because I've had this experience twice recently, where about 10 floors of people could have seen my gentle knock and entry into the room.
I am very low volume, and personally always prefer a key card floor/hotel. Most of my dates begin outside of the room; lunch, drinks, dinner, etc, and this scenario works for me.
I would never offer outcalls, or accept an incall date at a motel, where inside hallways are non existant. Most hotels with large atriums are convention hotels, and people are always coming and going. Trust me; no one cares who comes in and out, as they have their own lives to live. You (like me) are not that important.
My only concern, is that many ladies and gentlemen do not communicate how to find their room. If I choose to stay at a keyed hotel, I let my gentlemen know this ahead of time. I always greet friends in a suit, heels, etc.
Rule number one: act like you belong and you will be fine!
Hugs,
Kelly
act like you belong and you will be fine. People stand out and get noticed when they stumble around lost and act nervous, the ones who smile and say hi as they walk by don't get a second look........Unless she has a really nice butt, then everybody has to take a second peek.
I always wondered what the ladies with all those tats do when checking into to a hotel or motel to not get noticed. Especially the ladies with tats on their faces.
....many banks of elevators, I always ask the gentleman which one I should use. Many hotels in DC have different "towers", etc.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
This happened to me once - DC hotel with two 'wings' and separate elevator banks. Much confusion!
where you give the gentleman a rough location. It might be the hotel itself or it might be a cross roads or shopping center. He'll call again from there. You might even be able to see him arrive depending on the layout (to be sure he's alone). You give give him final approach instructions. If there's a particular door to use, tell him now. Where the elevators are... anything that will let him walk in confidently, like he knows where he's going. Be ready. Some gals leave the door with the night latch holding the door from closing so he doesn't have to knock. In any event, get him inside quickly & get the door closed before you greet him.
But I think she's a guy.....