You can do some on line research and find them.
Sorry you found some well reviewed gals were sub-par, but I think you got to admit using well reviewed gals betters your odds considerably. Now do other guys a favor and write an honest review of this gal. Unfortunately, asking questions about specifics before a date isn't going to work out.
I just had a provider take an exorbitant amount of money for very little in return and said I should have asked her over the phone what her rate is, time is, and services, but when I was asking her after she took the money and I was using common slang terms she kept saying "What do you mean?" to anything but just flat-out blatantly asking for what exactly I was looking for. That's not something I'm comfortable doing over the phone in any way.
How do I handle this so I don't get ripped off again?
Stick with well reviewed TER providers and avoid the bait and switch BP scammers with pretty, fake pictures.
By seeing only well reviewed providers you will know what's on the menu with out asking. If she wants you to tell her what sex acts you want to pay her for, she is either LE setting up a sting or has no idea how to protect herself or you and is best avoided.
I couldn't tell if her pics were fake, I've had good experiences with non-reviewed providers, and I've had bad experiences with well-reviewed providers (just as they were going downhill apparently), but none as bad as this. This was supreme rip-off artist that said I should have negotiated before giving her the money.
Is there any other sites I can check for ratings/reviews besides TER? It just doesn't seem good enough.
You can do some on line research and find them.
Sorry you found some well reviewed gals were sub-par, but I think you got to admit using well reviewed gals betters your odds considerably.
Now do other guys a favor and write an honest review of this gal.
Unfortunately, asking questions about specifics before a date isn't going to work out.
So if you want to be honest but have something negative to say, and have not already revealed your main TER name to a provider, you might possibly avoid some unpleasantness by using your alias.
We'll hopefully you'll write a review about her so others can learn from it.
I can't figure out how you don't know what she does if she's a reviewed lady. If it says I don't know, either she doesn't do it, or she's so new that no one knows yet.
I looked at your reviewed ladies briefly and it seems like you are playing in a price range that is really low. 30 minutes or 60 minutes for $? You get what you pay for. If I could get those rates, with good service, my dick would fall off from overuse...
How do I handle this so I don't get ripped off again?
The lower priced BP girls are more willing to discuss details on the phone. One time I was trying to get together with a bargain priced girl who actually had good reviews on TER. She couldn't hear me that well on the phone and somehow when I said I wanted a half hour she thought I said greek (it confused me too). Anyway, she said that would be extra and then remembered that she left her lube in the car and went off on some tangent. We didn't manage to get together, but the point is that some girls will talk about anything and everything on the phone, and they're the ones that will say you should have told them what you wanted ahead of time.
And you have written a few reviews and I suspect have other experiences that you've not written about.
Asking a gal what her rate is, et al simply screams that her ads are quite incomplete. I also assume that you're seeing gals that don't have any websites.
I've never had a problem when using phone (generally after I've been screened and set a date) contact verifying with any gal just what I'm seeking. Some guys here are quite paranoid that discussing anything on the phone will cause you LE issues...however that is IMHO nonsense. If you are about to see a gal who is part of LE it doesn't matter whether you've talked on the phone..emailed or texted her. You'll still get busted.
As others have commented, if a gal has reviews here (and I see that you're in SLC which has slim pickings from what i hear) or other review sites...that should give you sufficient info to know what the fee is, what she generally will do.
Stop seeing the gals with no history that confirms what her rates are, what her services are. Or keep on doing so and post here again in a few months lamenting your poor choices.
How do I handle this so I don't get ripped off again?
ask you want you want, then you tell her--"I want to fuck you in 6 different positions after you get me all hot with a BBBJ." Never over the phone.