Let's face it guys, a provider only wants to gain a repeat client. If you pushed her to go outside her own rules don't think that you are special, she didn't want to disappoint you. Have a little bit of respect for boundaries.
Thanks for everyone's help on turning a lady to the dark side. I went into it hoping for the best but expecting the worst. We met, and part of the time was chatting while we enjoyed dinner. She had her rules, which are reasonable for erotic massage only. Topless only, until she is comfortable with you, no touching below the waist. Guys have offered her $ for more, and it turns her off (e.g. don't even ask).
I think what helped was treating her like a lady. Did some light kissing. Gave her a massage. etc. Well, it eventually ended up at DATY giving her multiple O's. I got a HJ, with a promise of CBJ the next time.
The problem I have is: How do I write a review on her?
On the face of it, everything, up until the date, and for the begining of the date is: Erotic massage only. Kept her legs tightly together when I gave her a massage. I got the feeling from her that she was sincere when she said she has never gone that far with a client before.
She would like a review, and I would rate her highly because of YMMV. If I rated her on erotic massage only, she would score much lower. I feel I should be respectful of her Erotic Massag only, and not in any way imply in the review that you would get any more than that.
Thoughts?
list it as YMMV. You already listed that she goes over her rules clearly prior to anything happening.
Who knows, maybe she will go further with someone else. Then again maybe not.
Let's face it guys, a provider only wants to gain a repeat client. If you pushed her to go outside her own rules don't think that you are special, she didn't want to disappoint you. Have a little bit of respect for boundaries.
cbj and see what is promised for date three.
Succumbing to the dark side is a longer journey for some.
If you report what happened between the two of you and it really was exceptional activities beyond what she normally intends to provide, then others will come to expect the same service. That would be a big problem for her and end in a number of disappointed customers. If her intentions are to expand the level of service to at least some clients, then by all means report everything. Since she would like a review, why not ask her about her the level of service she intends to generally provide.
Something else bothered me about your query, but please don't take this as a flame. The phrase "turning a lady to the dark side" makes you sound a little like a pimp. (I'm not accusing you of being one). Follow your own suggestion: "treating her like a lady." Respect her limits and don't try to maneuver her into doing things she doesn't really want to do.
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..........who classified herself as a certified massage therapist. A review I had read stated sensual massage only. I just assumed she was massage only. She also stated to me that she had just gotten out of a very long relationship, and she was feeling really horny, and if I did'nt mind being her MAN TOY for the evening.
She then proceeded to give me a very sensual massage with all the a bbbj and CFS. All for the price of a sensual massage. I was pleasantly surprised, she asked me several times if I was still breathing. It all depends on the mood.
If she's really horny and you give off good Karma you might get extras.
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