But they were both visiting ladies. I made an appointment, had an awesome time and wanted to see them again before they left, and then again. I have also seen a lady two days in a row, but I was visiting her area that time. With local ladies it would be very rare that I see someone more than once every other month or so.
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Had an amazing connection on my first visit with a new girl for me. How long should I wait to book a 2nd appt with the same girl? Don't want to come on too strong or wait too long either.
That's not my thing - as I usually take about a week or two between appointments in general (and only once have I seen the same lady within two weeks). But if you want to see her again very soon, I imagine she'd be happy with that. Now if you start trying to see her 4 days a week she might start to feel uncomfortable, but you aren't close to that yet. So go for it. Or, do what I'd do, and visit with a few other ladies inbetween, build up a little more anticipation for your second visit with her.
We ended up in a LTR. lol
yes, I actually did that a couple of years ago. I saw her first on a Sunday night, had lunch the next day (no sex) another session on Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, and that was the last time she ever charged me.
Now I doubt that is what the OP is looking for, but I am just saying that there is nothing wrong with seeing a lady as soon as back to back days if she really rocks your world. Just don't act stalkerish or as if you are starting to develop any real feelings or you might scare her off.
...I've never done that but I have gone back exactly one week later and I have seen the same lady 3 times in a month. I don't get to see providers as often as I once did so now it's about once every couple of months.
... but little things get in the way... like jobs... and money. And the fact that the providers I see are typically booked days in advance, at least.
There's a couple of providers I try to see about once a month--my atf, and my future atf (my atf will be retiring soon).
Remember your hobby is their business. So whenever you want to see her go for it.
Good info.......I sent her an email 2 days after our meeting to say thanks and will probably have a chance to see her again in 4 weeks, once a month would work well for me, just thought 4 weeks after the FIRST visit might seem long to her but business is business so I'm sure she gets it....just me over-thinking it!
Thanks
I now have a favorite that I see every week.
Gotta admit after not repeating for so long (though not necessarily by choice - some that I really liked have left the biz), it's quite nice.
Mind you, still am interested in finding an alternate to keep things interesting.
Glad to hear the time frame is not a big deal......since I'm only 1 year in, I've never seen the same friend twice yet, so this is new terrain for me
But they were both visiting ladies. I made an appointment, had an awesome time and wanted to see them again before they left, and then again. I have also seen a lady two days in a row, but I was visiting her area that time. With local ladies it would be very rare that I see someone more than once every other month or so.
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