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Re: While asking permission might be important, why not make it simple...
PhillyAbbey See my TER Reviews 433 reads
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I do the same Kelly.  This is supposed to be fun!!  I am more than happy to provide a reference for the gentlemen I see, I want them to have a great time and be safe.

Abbey

have you never met with ladies that screen before????

this is what my emails say:
Hi so n so, Its me angel exotic,
then I provide links to my web site and my ter id number.
Us ladies have to be careful a customers wife could actually be inquiring if her husband has met with them, and it may not be another escort. Which has happened , On my end I need to be certain to identify myself to the lady your using as a reference.
       Many ladies will not be used as a referal UNLESS the customer has given them prior notification .We like to keep ur dates discreet and protect the customers privacy, If we are not given a "heads up" we sometimes simply will not give the lady ANY information just yet, Unless the sutomer in question says it is ok,  
Seeing escorts is a discreet affair and you want to protect the customers right to privacy, Some men date escorts and jealousy dramas can arise, and again sometimes the inquiry is not from a escort it has been the mans wifey or girlfriend trying to get proof on him.
  Its actually quite a serious offense if your going through a divorce and are found "at fault" or guilty of cheating with prostitutes, The man could end up paying out alot more whilst undergoing a divorce if he can prooven to be guilty of seeing escorts whilst married behind wifes back......

 
              So from our perspective to protect the {you}  customers privacy, simply send us a polite email asking us if it ok that you use us as your provider refernce.
     

When you dont provide a name
email
phone number

 
   Chances are I will email the provider and be sent directly back to you to retrieve the necessary information to screen properly. That being a phone number a name and an email.  

 
Guys before using a lady as refernce. please ask her permision before hand.  

Hi Angel!  Can I use you as amy reference to set up a date with so n so?

 
Its alot of work for every one i realize, But can you put a price on a classy provider being able to have actuall sme form of pice of mind when in communications with you before appt and at actual appt?

For me the refernce/screening gives me pice of mind that whom i am speaking with is safe, not a cop, not a boyfriend emailing me to see what i am really doing,..................

On our end we do not know who is on the other end that alias email or phone line, and when you contact us asking ALOT of questions of us and taking ALOT of our time, and we have no idea if your even a real potential customer?

For me i put my face in my photos, I owe nobody NOTHING and answer to no one! However how am i to know its not just a local clients wife posing as a john to dig for information?

 
guys give me the respect of a WORKING reference . Contact her first so she will respond to me .
Include a name email and phone number.
We cannot screen you using just your alias and email. fyi.

....for gentlemen callers, and tell them that you are willing to be listed as a reference.

    When I am wrapping up a date with a new friend, I always tell them,  "I truly enjoyed our time together,  but should you wish to visit with another lady, please know that you may list me as a reference".  Many gentlemen are hesitant to ask permission, as they feel that they would be hurting your feelings, by seeing another lady.

Hugs and Kisses,  
Kelly

You've read my mind exactly.  It's refreshing to know that someone is willing to be used as a reference and explicitly says so without having to be asked.

I've had women tell me that I'm a gentleman and they truly enjoyed spending time with me, but they've never offered to refer me to other women.

Now, I don't know if that's a reflection on me or maybe the provider is afraid she's lose me as a client.

I do the same Kelly.  This is supposed to be fun!!  I am more than happy to provide a reference for the gentlemen I see, I want them to have a great time and be safe.

Abbey

reach out the WLs or Okays, in addition to the provided references, to screen. Can't do much when a script not followed. :P

...let her know that another provider may be contacting her for a reference.  Simply by whitelisting or okaying a hobbyist, she should expect to be asked for a reference.

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