If some one blocks me for asking about PSE, I didn't want to see them anyway. Fuck that. PSE has no clear definition. So it isn't actually a sexual request. Its the same as asking about GFE. Yes, I'd never ask anything other than about about a date on the first email/pm, but at some point you do need to express your desires. It will make for a better experience.
I am confused about what PSE service means, does that means Greek or not necessary? I have searched online and didn't find out a clear answer, if you can help me out. Thanks.
The bar at the top of this area has a button that says search, you could try there.
There is no exact definition. (didn't I just write this last week) PSE is Porn Star Experience. She may or may not be an actual porn star. There are so many types of porn just about every lady could say PSE, but generally it means, at least to me, high energy and multiple positions and should probably have at least a facial offered. Greek might be included, you should check reviews and menus.
If your looking for that experience you probably should mention it when requesting an appointment.
It is not a good idea to request any special sexual activities when contacting a gal. That will often get you on her DNS list.
Instead, check out reviews and maybe ask very low level question like "Are you open minded?" That's pretty tame but is often a clue that they do some of the more way out things, like greek.
You are correct. I meant ask about PSE not Greek.
Instead, check out reviews and maybe ask very low level question like "Are you open minded?" That's pretty tame but is often a clue that they do some of the more way out things, like greek.
...Asking about it in initial contact especially for a newbie would most likely end the contact. She may think you're LE trying to get her to say something incriminating. Some here will say if you don't mention sex (PSE) and money you'll be ok but there's no need to take that chance
If some one blocks me for asking about PSE, I didn't want to see them anyway. Fuck that. PSE has no clear definition. So it isn't actually a sexual request. Its the same as asking about GFE. Yes, I'd never ask anything other than about about a date on the first email/pm, but at some point you do need to express your desires. It will make for a better experience.
You may as well ask her how much for a blowjob, it's all sex for money.
...end the discussion. I've never not gotten what I expected by reading the reviews and back channel. No need to ask.
Neither have I for the most part, but many people, including myself, don't like the "what do you like" over and over once things get started.
What do you do if its an extra charge for greek? How do you convey that you want that service without saying so? You don't need to be crude but the gal may need to prepare for it.
What about a lady that has toys? Is it offensive to mention you hope she brings them?
Life usually doesn't go as well as it could if you fail to ask for what you want. "um, to the waitress, I'd like some food"?
I certainly don't want to say something like surprise me., I nod off for a second and suddenly I'm getting lubed up... and a dudes coming through the door.
...received. The rule we give newbies is (and we follow it too) don't ask about services for money. Don't ask explicit sexual questions. Now from there you have guys (and gals) legitimately wanting to know certain things before the first visit. Anal? The reviews and profile say yes. But how do you let her know to be prepared if you can't ask about it or inform that you desire it?
I don't ask. I don't mention it. I wait until the first meeting is over then ask while still there. The next meeting I arrange with her I can say I'd like to visit the isles this trip. Because she has seen me she's now ok with that being asked. (Even then some don't want it put in an e-mail because of "paper trail".) If you don't want to wait until the second session for the service you have to decide if you're willing to take the chance she will cut off contact because you broached the subject with her during initial contact. If that's ok with you go ahead and ask.
Some ladies are ok with a specific question once you've passed screening. Problem is you don't know if she is or not. Again if you're ok with the chance she ends communication wait until screening is done then ask.
Someone suggested once you are screened ask if she's ok with more specific questions. Chances are that wouldn't cause her to end communication. Depends on how concerned she is about LE. Some ladies don't want any discussion outside of date, time, place, and screening info. Point is you never know. Therefore any discussion of specifics (anal, cim, and so on) can end contact.
I choose to not take that chance. Anything good is worth waiting for.
Understand all of this is in regard to initial contact with a lady who knows nothing about you. If the monger is a newbie all the more reason not to ask as the lady's sensitivity to inappropriate discussion will be heightened.
Both GFE and PSE imply sexual services. It doesn't matter which ones specifically apply to each acronym.