Ive seen you mention over and over again that women who aren't in as good of a place (as say Julia or some of the ladies in the GD board yesterday) should be happy to take your reduced offers.
Do you intentionally prey on ladies who are disadvantaged or appear slightly less polished (ie less experienced) and then push their boundaries? Yes I am hiding behind an alias, and no I don't expect you to answer my questions. But it's sure nice to call it like I see itI've seen a few forum posts that talk about how folks are able to negotiate rates with the providers. I thought most providers say no negotiations (on their websites). Also, how would you do it since you can't really talk about money via email/text/etc. or even in person (for fear of LE).
any suggestions, ideas, etc.? Or is this just a pipe dream for most people and only regulars can get lower prices?
Providers say "no negotiations" to give guys the impression they don't. They also put no sex for money on their website so take that for what it's worth. We all know negotiating is a part of life and virtually every business I am aware.
Girls will negotiate with valued clients, especially the ones seeing them often. It's just smart business sense to do so.
They will also be much more open to negotiate during certain times of year but this will vary according to the region of the country. For example, in the Northeast, late December through February are typically the times escorts are more open to taking less than what they state on their website.
That being said, I don't negotiate one or two hour sessions. Many girls will discount the second hour and state it publically already. I see girls for usually 3 or 4 hours. For that amount of time and money, many will find it worth their while to take less than requested.
The one area where I would tell a newb to negotiate is on overnights. Some ladies are charging 3-5k for an overnighter and many will take far less.
The big key with negotiating is not to get stuck on one girl. If you HAVE to see someone, well, that puts you in a tougher spot to negotiate. But if you play the numbers, have multiple girls in mind rather than locking in on just one, negotiating can be a win/win situation.
But like I said, negotiating is for more advanced/experienced guys. If you do incorrectly, you will get placed on gals DNS list and they can spread the word to their friends in the biz.
I hope that helps. Read up, learn more and leave the negotiations for a later date.
Good luck in the hobby
and a smart lady will likely offer a lower rate since she will not have to spend the time and expense to screen you every time like other potential new clients. Plus, at that point she will likely WANT to be there... and as her stress goes down your fun might likely go up. At least this has been my experience. Flame away...
don't try to negotiate, esp if she is a well established provider. You might find some new, younger providers that will haggle with you, but I wouldn't expect it with every one of them.
Once you become an established regular with a provider, she may offer you a discounted rate, but I would not recommend asking for it. Let her set the rate, and if you do get such an offer, she is probably doing it with others too, but that's her business not yours. In order to get a discounted rate, she may require regular visits, say once a month.
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