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Oh, and another question was with the term "open-minded".  I've inferred from another review that this mean "bbfs".  Is this right?  Just wondering because I definitely want to stay away from those if that's what it means.

Thanks,

I have seen two things in numerous ads that I wonder what they generally mean (and specifically if they apply to me).

First I see that many girls only seek "mature gentlemen" without a specific age range.  I wonder what is a rule of thumb for this.  I would assume it is somewhat relative.  For example, I am 27 and I would assume that a 19-year-old would consider me a "mature gentleman" while a 26-year-old would not.  I would assume the rule of thumb would be like 35+ though?

Second I see "high class gentlemen only".  Against I assume this is somewhat relative to the price, but it's still pretty ambiguous to me.  For example, I make just under 6 figures which I know is well above the median.  However, I live in the Baltimore/DC area and there are obviously many people who are making much more than me but conversely many more who are making much less than me.  So I guess I would be considered "high class" or no?  What do you think other criteria are?  I also think I may be overthinking it and that the criteria for "high-class" is just that you are willing to pay an above-average rate.

Thanks in advance

Oh, and another question was with the term "open-minded".  I've inferred from another review that this mean "bbfs".  Is this right?  Just wondering because I definitely want to stay away from those if that's what it means.

Thanks,

Are all terms that are open to interpretation. I'd worry more about what the reviews say, than the ad copy. And yes, you're overthinking  

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Oh, and another question was with the term "open-minded".  I've inferred from another review that this mean "bbfs".  Is this right?  Just wondering because I definitely want to stay away from those if that's what it means.  
   
 Thanks,

Your questions seem to be strictly judgmental ones, so my answer would be to just find providers who you like and try your luck with them.  Good luck and have fun.  I know I do!!

Using terms like "upscale", and " high class" is just a way to make her appear worthy of more $$ and good treatment. Even using the term "gentlemen" is rather meaningless since some hobbyists are far from gentlemanly, and in some cases aren't even men at all! If I disregarded all of the ads that have "gentlemen" splattered all over them I would never get any play. Bottom line is that there are a lot of generic terms inherently used in this profession, and after awhile you begin to glaze right over them.


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though sometimes if they go on and on more than the usual short blurb, it can give you an idea of fit.
I'm very down to earth and without pretense, so when I get a strong sense that a lady is not the same way, I take that as an indicator that I should move on.

Yes I am known to overthink pretty much everything :P  Most of you guys confirmed what I was starting to suspect, although there were a couple points I never considered.  Thanks.

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