I guess, I've taken the meaning of really important differently then you do. Just because my profile says something is really important doesn't mean that its a MUST or that I always expect someone to do that something. If your profile says something like Greek Goddess and reviewers mention it, I'm pretty confident that we'll get around to it if that's what we want to do. If your profile says NO and I still contact you I'm not expecting that.
The longer it takes me to write this and rewrite this numerous times, I have to give it to you and I'll go change my inputs. I'd hate to think I'm missing out because my desires aren't conveyed well. I'll also add a lot more information to the paragraph area. Honestly, the most important thing for me is some type of connection. I really appreciate the input.Otherwise it's pretty innocuous information...do you like perfume, what do you like for lighting and the provider's attire, are you a smoker, do you mind if the provider is a smoker, are LFK, DFK, BBBJ, Greek important to you?
I mean, who needs to lie about this stuff? And a little paragraph at the end will usually tell me about what kind of experience the person hopes to enjoy. It shouldn't be a big deal to complete and it helps us provide a better experience for the people we meet, or lets us know that we are probably not the right lady for them.
For example, if Greek is listed as "very important" on someone's profile, I'm not going to provide the experience they are looking for and I will let them know this.
You guys don't like it when a provider's profile says "don't know" for half of her menu, and I feel the same about a person's P411 profile. If you don't want to provide a profile, don't sign up for their service, IMO.
I didn't expect P411 to have options for images and BIOs for clients, kind of like a dating site. Does uploading this info make a difference? Do providers care?
I don't think that you are suggesting that clients put their photographs on P411. It is probably not a good idea to put too much information in the bio either.
slew of mixed emotions on this topic and I would just present what you are comfortable presenting. There are many men who have contacted me with their photos on p411 included and full in depth bios about themselves and what they like and expect kinda thing out of the women they choose to see. I think that's why it's there just like our profiles. So you learn who we are, we can also learn a little more about you. It's nice.
Then there are some who don't fill anything out at all and you are guessing. Which is perfectly ok too. They are using the site to simply verify and be verified which is its purpose as well. For me, I could go either way. But I think it's a nice gesture when I see who I'm meeting and their likes. But it's certainly not a necessity. I don't think there's any science or method to the gentlemen who choose to show themselves vs not. For those that do, I think it's just a common courtesy to make a woman feel comfortable with whom they are about to meet. I don't really think it's anything more than that. Just do what you feel is right for you. You have to live with any repercussions of putting anything out there, not anyone else, photo, info or not. Just like we do too with how much we choose to expose.
Good luck to you with whatever you decide.
xx kisses
Stevie
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That most ladies do not seem to read them. I think they check the number of OKs, who they're from, and how old they are. Rarely have I gotten a comment that would indicate they read more than that.
maybe they just look at OK's on provider view to see who you've seen? At least 50% of them DON'T check my profile.
The photo is great, but I do not require it.
However, the bio is important to me and I do read every one of them when I am screening. Sometimes the additional info will convince me to see someone that I am on the fence about. Other times, I will decline if something in the bio makes me get the impression that they may not enjoy their time with me. That rarely happens, but I would rather not waste someone's time if I can catch it right off the bat.
In conclusion, the bio is pretty important to some of us!
...dinner dates, etc, and I want to know more about whom I am meeting.
For instance; do they share my love of travel, wine, literature, etc. It makes the conversation flow much easier. I also enjoy knowing the "look" the gentleman prefers: classy or trashy, garters, lingerie, etc. A gentleman's drink of choice is important, as I always provide beverages.
I have received a few recent requests that have included photos; interesting.
Yes, I do read a gentleman's bio from beginning to end.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
This is good to know, so thanks for all the replies. I think I can tell which providers would care about such information and which would not.