I want to ask the provider some questions about menu like do you offer CIM, anal, roleplaying and ect. Do I PM her or through the email? Can I use these words when I send these message?
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If you can't get what you need to know from their website and their TER reviews, then either TOFTT (take a chance) or move along to someone who you're confident of.
If you ask questions like that you'll be blacklisted and ignored on PM, email, whatever.
you cannot ask. That is why we have provider profiles and reviews. If you ask about any sexual activities, you will promptly get yourself ignored. Pay for VIP and read the reviews. If you can afford to see a provider, you can afford to pay for at least one month of VIP membership.
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So is that mean we only can ask such questions when we meet in person. Like in person screening?
...any and all questions such as that should be answered prior to you seeing the lady via her website info and her reviews. I mean seriously. Once you meet with a lady, you can ask her these questions prior to the session you booked, but there's no such thing as an 'in-person screening', at least not prior to booking a session.
You're never going to learn to swim unless you jump in the pool. Just set up a standard appointment with a well-reviewed provider: 1-2 hours, no kink, no special requests. She'll school you quick!