You do realize that this is a temporary (even with ATFs) business transaction. It is not personal. You should be doing this to avoid drama, so move on. Lots of great ladies out here.
OK so I wanted to see this well reviewed provider. On her website she says she is newbie friendly and to contact her by email or text. I emailed, a day goes by and no response. Ok I try a follow up text, nothing. I learn later I may have broken a rule, her site mentions Greek is available and I referenced that in my original email to her. Although I was polite about it apparently referring to sexual acts in correspondence could be a no no. After I received my first whitelist referral I decided to revisited the issue about a month later. I send another email apologizing for perhaps being rather crass in my last email to her and not mentioning any sexually activities I stated I would still like to meet and I tell her about my referral on TER. No response and I know she is still active: her website has been updated and she has been reviewed by a few users from this site since. Any advice or suggestions would be appreciated.
Yes, you broke a rule, which isn't the end of the world. Everyone makes mistakes in p4p, especially when youre a newbie. But you are at the point where you will be stalking her if you contact her again and there a number of things she could potentially do and none of them would be pleasant for you.
If you will be playing this game fairly frequently, you should have a list of potential girls you might want to see. Don't get hung up on any one of them. When something like this happens, or if you did nothing wrong at all and a future girl never responds to 2 attempts, move on to the next girl on your list.
Just put this behind you and have it be a learning experience. Not want you wanted to hear but sometimes the best course of action is no action at all, for you and her.
Could be a number of reasons for not getting a response. Maybe it was your initial email, maybe she is just busy. Go out and build some credibility (and confidence) and try again in a few months when you have a few ladies that will vouch for you.
Many options in this hobby, enjoy them!
You broke etiquette rule #1 and that's very likely why she's not interested in seeing you. If you keep pestering her, you could wind up blacklisted. Chalk it up to a lesson learned. World keeps a'spinnin'.
Get White lists, references, P411 okays, etc.
And perhaps a year from now, you could try again if you still have interest, with just a single contact (and if you do, don't mention any of this previous drama).
Most important advice for newbies is to REALLY adopt the phrase "Move On" as almost a mantra.
So easy when you start to get hung up on one lady, or to take things personally.
Learn from your mistakes, roll with the punches, and have fun.
You do realize that this is a temporary (even with ATFs) business transaction. It is not personal. You should be doing this to avoid drama, so move on. Lots of great ladies out here.
I think this song describes the situation to a certain extent.
In any case, it's a beautiful song, so thanks for the chance to showcase it.
Not exactly want I wanted to hear. I thought this was something I could "fix". For everyone who responded: Thank you. It seems everybody has similar advice. I am certainly not looking for trouble for either myself or the provider and I guess I'll just have to move on.