she is likely to cut off communication with you.
It is fine to talk about what she wears and other non-sexual activities. The best way to know what she does is by reading her reviews.
As for the consideration, if she does not have this detailed on her website or ads (a red light, by the way) then ask her where that information is, or ask if the amounts listed on her profile are accurate.
So, I'm trying to set up a date and the provider's web site has a menu of different options (outcall is extra, Greek is extra, PSE is extra but I'm not actually looking for that here). She has asked if I have any special requests but I am trying to be very disreet about my communications. At the same time I want to make sure I am getting the date I want and - just as importantly - that I am giving the correct consideration. How do you approach this?
I've only had a couple dates before and neither of them had extras so I'd love some advice on how to make it a nice experience for me and the provider.
Send a private message to the provider if you are not sure whether everything on the menu is included in the basic rate. Get this clarified before your appointment.
she is likely to cut off communication with you.
It is fine to talk about what she wears and other non-sexual activities. The best way to know what she does is by reading her reviews.
As for the consideration, if she does not have this detailed on her website or ads (a red light, by the way) then ask her where that information is, or ask if the amounts listed on her profile are accurate.
Thanks everyone, this is really helpful.
Whatever you do, be a gentleman.
Don't use acronyms. They imply certain activities for money. LE knows what you are talking about.
If you want to know about her use of covers, rather than asking "do you offer BBBJ?", ask "what are your safe sex practices?"
Make sense?
Thanks Mackenzie. I was thinking more about this over the weekend. The issue is that the provider offers GFE for an upcharge. Since we never talk about money even during the date, is it something where I just include the additional donation and then talk about it when we meet?
Hmmmm. A great question.
Since I generally don't up charge for specific activities, I am not sure how to respond. Everything I like is on the table and available during our time together.
For what other girls have mentioned to me, after she determines you are not LE, you could ask in person. Bring enough cash to cover that potential opportunity. I would also think that her ad would state the types of sessions she offers. If so, be sure to request that type during your conversation to set up the appointment.
Those are my thoughts.
Mackenzi