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swimtrekr 58 Reviews 639 reads
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sometimes it's true, and sometimes it isn't.  The pink eye might have been legit, but your second prob seems fishy to me.  IMHO, she prob got a better deal from a regular, and blew you off.  Sucks, but it happens.

Since I don't know how you set up the date, I can't say if your approach was right or not.  I had a well-reviewed provider do it to me.  First, she texted me when I was almost to the place she wanted me to contact her for specific directions to her incall, so we rescheduled.  When I went back the next week, she never answered my calls or texts after I reached the point at which she would give me the directions.  WTF???  Needless to say, there has been no contact between us since.

Sorry, but keep looking, and do your research!!!

Swim

Im still trying to schedule my 1st encounter and a couple of times they cancelled on same day. One girl texted me 2hrs before saying she had pink eye and are you still okay with that. I said I'll try for next time. Another time I got lost on highway and texted another girl to say I might be late only to find out that she e-mailed me 90 min. before to say she needed to reschedule. Did something really come up? Did someone else she'd prefer to see contact her, or is there something wrong with my approach?  

Anyone been in a similar situation?

....give you my thoughts.

    Your post is a bit scattered, so I am not sure of your are two for two, or two for three.

    My first question is: where did you find the ladies you wish to visit with, and where are you trying to reserve dates?  Many ladies on sites such as BP are very reliable, and have great reviews, while others are scammers, while others on more "prestige sites" such as Eros, are usually more reliable, but not always.  This site has a mix of both, and that is why reviews are helpful.

    Research.  Once you find a lady that you wish to visit with, run her web address, phone number, and e-mail through Google (I do not post my phone number), where you can find a wealth of information.

   Approach.  If you contacted me using lowercase, abbreviations, and slang, I would not see you.  Many ladies are looking for gentlemen who use proper language, etc.

    Did something really come up?  My guess, is that you (my apologies if you did not) booked an hour, and  the lady had a better offer; multiple hours.  

    Yes, we live in the real world, and there are times when we cannot control our circumstances, but they are few and far bewteen.

     All the best in the future........

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Sorry I didn't respond sooner but I have had a busy day. They are well reviewed providers I found on p 411. I fill out the form and\or e-mail them with a little personal info about me and some compliments. Then some basic back and forth. I do ask them for the location the night before so I can map it.

She did offer extra time for free with is good.
Thanks for the response!

Posted By: BeautywithBrains
....give you my thoughts.  
   
     Your post is a bit scattered, so I am not sure of your are two for two, or two for three.  
   
     My first question is: where did you find the ladies you wish to visit with, and where are you trying to reserve dates?  Many ladies on sites such as BP are very reliable, and have great reviews, while others are scammers, while others on more "prestige sites" such as Eros, are usually more reliable, but not always.  This site has a mix of both, and that is why reviews are helpful.  
   
     Research.  Once you find a lady that you wish to visit with, run her web address, phone number, and e-mail through Google (I do not post my phone number), where you can find a wealth of information.  
   
    Approach.  If you contacted me using lowercase, abbreviations, and slang, I would not see you.  Many ladies are looking for gentlemen who use proper language, etc.  
   
     Did something really come up?  My guess, is that you (my apologies if you did not) booked an hour, and  the lady had a better offer; multiple hours.  
   
     Yes, we live in the real world, and there are times when we cannot control our circumstances, but they are few and far bewteen.  
   
      All the best in the future........  
   
 Hugs and Kisses,  
 Kelly

sometimes it's true, and sometimes it isn't.  The pink eye might have been legit, but your second prob seems fishy to me.  IMHO, she prob got a better deal from a regular, and blew you off.  Sucks, but it happens.

Since I don't know how you set up the date, I can't say if your approach was right or not.  I had a well-reviewed provider do it to me.  First, she texted me when I was almost to the place she wanted me to contact her for specific directions to her incall, so we rescheduled.  When I went back the next week, she never answered my calls or texts after I reached the point at which she would give me the directions.  WTF???  Needless to say, there has been no contact between us since.

Sorry, but keep looking, and do your research!!!

Swim

If you actually got two dates SCHEDULED then I don't think you did anything wrong.
The guys who are messing up tend to get the roadblocks from ladies BEFORE that point.
Also, you really only had one lady cancel on you, and it sounds like she'd like to rechedule sometime.

Don't worry about her reasons, because they honestly have nothing to do with you.
If on the otherhand you feel a bit disrespected because of the late notice, then just simply move on to someone else.

And if you aren't already, then please do pick from ladies who are highly reviewed here - as this will dramatically increase the chances of a good result.

Best of Luck - I'm sure a fun time is awaiting you soon..

well worth the money considering what a date gone wrong would cost (the full fee).

I came to realize that providers vary... some are kind of spacey and scattered.. others very good and professional.. I have had a 2 PM appointment get moved to 5 PM.. I have had a 9 AM appt blown off with no phone being answered by somone I had seen a few times (she said whe was asleep.. sorry). so don't take it personally.. When you see a real professional you realize what a difference it is and how relatively rare that may be.

I saw one girl a bunch..every time I was there.. she was beautiful and ready to go.. dressed in gorgeous clothes and perfect.. She moved on and I continued to see her and realized that she was a spaceshot with no sense of time.. she dressed like a slob in real life and was completley different than she was when she had someone herding her along..  

So, sounds like you just had a few "normal" sort of experiences.. keep looking..

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