Newbie - FAQ

Swim is correct; Gina, and her staff are great at verifying....
BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 619 reads
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....the self employed, currently unemployed, and students.  

    Please keep in mind, that many ladies do not use P411 as their sole means of verification.  You still may have to part with personal information.  

    Good luck and have fun!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

mikecm82691915 reads

Hey guys I'm new here and found a few girls I'd like to try out.  However they all require references/screening.  How do I go about this?  I've been to massage parlors before but no experience with independent providers.  I'm also self employed so I don't know if I can sign up for p411 or one of those services.  Any help would be appreciated.  Thanks.

Preferred411, that is a verification site that allows their providers to let us know if they are newbie friendly.  This usually means lighter screening, and you do not need a provider ref to join.  Gina and her staff will work with you to get you verified.

Swim

....the self employed, currently unemployed, and students.  

    Please keep in mind, that many ladies do not use P411 as their sole means of verification.  You still may have to part with personal information.  

    Good luck and have fun!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Posted By: BeautywithBrains
....the self employed, currently unemployed, and students.    
   
     Please keep in mind, that many ladies do not use P411 as their sole means of verification.  You still may have to part with personal information.    
   
     Good luck and have fun!  
   
 Hugs and Kisses,  
 Kelly
Are you suggesting that P411 isn't good or just that some providers want more information like home address and full name? P411 shows the provider plenty of information which can be verified from the client's license.

Provider view of possible client:

Client Id:   First Name, Birth Day, A letter that indicated birth city I think, and the last four digits on License (it does vary but its all information on the license)
Preferred Name:   (name)
Location:   @@@@@@@@@, IL
Client Email:   ^%$%%%%@gmail.com
Account Status:   Active
Active Member For:
   2 Years 4 Months 8 Days
Membership:   Basic Plus Member ( 4 Okays)

What more information should be required

not my thing personally, and certainly the vast majority of ladies on P411 DON'T ask for more.
But in this hobby, there is real risk, and everyone gets to decide for themselves how they will play, what their tolerance is.
There are plenty of clients who ARE okay with sharing their personal info, so the ladies who require this info do fine.

Best strategy?  Play how YOU feel comfortable, and never ask others to bend their requirements for you.
There have been some heated debates on this topic (rigid screening that requires personal info) on this board over the last couple years, as one's personal safety can certainly bring out strong opinions.  Seems like less recently, perhaps a happy truce acknowledging that we all should just opreate within our comfort zone - and leave it at that, because when you try to win a debate by minimizing the concerns of the other side... just not very smart, won't likely convince anyone, and ends up just being a waste of time

Thanks for your help everyone.  Just curious...what kind of personal information is needed? (typically)

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