Pretty good book written by a group of NY comedians.  While not about the "hobby" it is a lighthearted look at why how and what not to do if you are going to cheat on your SO.

It may be humor, but there are real tips in there for the non seasoned on how to avoid getting caught.

The authors are Robert Kelly, Bill Burr and Joe DeRosa.  With anecdotes from themselves and their friends on how they have been caught and what they could have or should have done differently