I have found letting them know certain things right out of the chute is the best way to avoid a possible ugly face to face meeting.
As a relative newbie, when booking a session with a new provider should I disclose my age (mid fifties) and weight (I am a big guy, so the provider can choose if she wants to see me or not. I am otherwise very well groomed dress well and very generous with gifts. Still I have had girls turn me down upon meeting for reasons known only to them. Maybe they had daddy issues...lol thanks
in an introductory email. Some girls may certainly have problem with weight. Most will be fine. A very few young providers may have problem with someone in 50s. Most will be OK. Also, you should reveal your race, if you are a minority. Some girls are hesitant to see certain races..Its good to know if she has any issues with race beforehand.
Good luck hobbying...
So it's always good to provide at least that upfront. I use P411 for all my appointments and it has your age listed as part of your profile. I've also included my height & weight as part of the client bio just to give the ladies some idea of what to expect... Seems to work well for me... haven't been turned away yet.
I have found letting them know certain things right out of the chute is the best way to avoid a possible ugly face to face meeting.
50s is prime hobbying age for clients, but there are occasional providers who have an upper limit that you might be pressing against and that should be clear on their website.
You'll probably encounter more refusals based on your weight. In this instance their websites will often have some phrases or code words such as: proportional height/weight/BMI, lead a healthy lifestyle, etc. If her request form has height/weight fields (and race!), then you can bet that it factors into her decision to see you.