I'm sorry your honest thread got hijacked. Yes, there are tons of information on this board if you read back (and it's free!) And the self help section can be read from a provider's point of view. Local providers may be more prone to see you as competition & even try to sabotage your efforts. In some ways a local provoder can teach things that would be hard to teach long distance. There are ladies here who WILL mentor new providers.
A couple of tips... you will need a "work phone" separate from your personal phone & a work email address, not linked to your regular email. There are all kinds of service levels from FBSM (Full Body Sensual Massage), to Full Service. (Intercourse). You can choose what services you want to offer. The pricing is different for different services, obiviously. There are markets for every body type... again, the client's perception of your attractiveness affects how much he's willing to pay. Sorry if this is rude, I think it's the truth. It may be more difficult but more normal gals who give great service can build up a clientel... it just takes longer. Some of them are among my favorites. It is hard to sell your services without pictures... they should be real. You don't need to show your face. When I am scouting for prospects, I look for a variety of pictures from several angles & poses (and dress & undress) so I feel I know before I arrive what she looks like naked. They need not be explicit. I'm suspicious of less than a dozen pictures (all don't need to be in every ad, in fact better to rotate them). You can certainly pick your best angles.I have considered moonlighting as an escort for awhile. I'm 39 and my hormones are on a sex-crazed rampage. I've had several lovers recently after getting divorced and we have such a good time that sometimes I think I should be getting paid for this. I mean, they say to do what you love and what you're good at, right?
Otoh, it's beginning to seem so complicated though. Im very uncomfortable posting an ad on an escort site, for starters. Plus, I look nothing like the girls in those ads! I'm 39, I have an attractive body but there are flaws. And what do you do if you don't find your client attractive at all? What if they don't find me attractive?? And how can you be sure that the person you're meeting isn't a cop, or someone you know in your "daytime" life?
So many questions and concerns, but still it seems naught and fun, not to mention the money is so good, esp when you're a single mom.
Read the Newbie Board, post on your local board, read the Self Help manual. Knowing as little as you say you do, you can make some really bad errors and get in one hell of a lot of trouble. Proceed with caution.
After reading her post here and on the Newbie Board, I'm not even sure if she has the stomach for this.
LOTS of research needs to be done by the OP before dipping her toes in the world of P4P.
Steph xoxo
You are fine, lol! As far as worrying about if he thinks you're sexy... Of course he does. Unless you've severely photoshopped your pictures, he's already happy. This isn't some dude settling for you at last call, this is someone who's done their research and has chosen you as his lovely lady.
If you don't find him attractive, well, there's almost always something to like about them. If there's really not, just tell him to leave. It's not like you HAVE to do anything here, and we aren't going to sit here and tell you they're all George Clooney. They are however kind, funny, interesting, and a ball to hang out with if you are careful and listen to your gut about who you would really enjoy spending time with.
As far as advertising, shoot. You could have just put where you are and someone would've contacted you! Lol! A website, or membership on P411 or DateCheck or RS2K are all some girls have, and they do just fine. Some even leave it to a website and posting here and do alright. The ad boards here are a good resource too, and are free. If you don't want a ton of business, you may not want to advertise at all. Otherwise you'll just drive yourself crazy turning it all away.
For screening, ask for as much information as you need to be comfortable. Some girls just want to talk to the guy on the phone, others want his full name and employment info every time. This can and should be fun for everyone, so ask for as much information as you need to do that.
You could look into an agency. Don't get me wrong, you will lose a lot of money this way. But, you will have the chance to practice and get comfortable without worrying about screening too. Just make sure that you discuss their screening, blacklist, incall, etc procedures so you're not feeling doubly uncomfortable. Assistants can be less expensive, but they will not usually have the big client database to get you started on.
Stay off the TER General board! lol!
If this is where every woman first came who was considering escorting, I'm afraid we'd have a lot slimmer pickins to choose from! :o
Search tumblr for escort blogs. That was enough info for me to hit the ground running. Plus you already found TER, so you're not doing too bad so far.
I'm sorry your honest thread got hijacked. Yes, there are tons of information on this board if you read back (and it's free!) And the self help section can be read from a provider's point of view. Local providers may be more prone to see you as competition & even try to sabotage your efforts. In some ways a local provoder can teach things that would be hard to teach long distance. There are ladies here who WILL mentor new providers.
A couple of tips... you will need a "work phone" separate from your personal phone & a work email address, not linked to your regular email.
There are all kinds of service levels from FBSM (Full Body Sensual Massage), to Full Service. (Intercourse). You can choose what services you want to offer. The pricing is different for different services, obiviously.
There are markets for every body type... again, the client's perception of your attractiveness affects how much he's willing to pay. Sorry if this is rude, I think it's the truth. It may be more difficult but more normal gals who give great service can build up a clientel... it just takes longer. Some of them are among my favorites.
It is hard to sell your services without pictures... they should be real. You don't need to show your face. When I am scouting for prospects, I look for a variety of pictures from several angles & poses (and dress & undress) so I feel I know before I arrive what she looks like naked. They need not be explicit. I'm suspicious of less than a dozen pictures (all don't need to be in every ad, in fact better to rotate them). You can certainly pick your best angles.
go to the GD board. This board is to help newbies, and your petty bickering is helping no one. If it wasn't for some real answers to the OP's question, I'd ask admin to remove this thread.
Quit hijacking a thread that is supposed to help someone, you're just making yourselves look silly and childish. If you don't have something new and helpful to add, say nothing.
Swim
Because RodTidwell, using his alias, GHOSTof ChgoCPA, started flaming several of us but then also used his real handle. Admin caught him at it, flipped his alias and moved the thread here.
So if you have a bone to pick, pick it with Admin.
Personally, I agree with you it does not belong here, but all out posts were done when it was on the other board.
on a potential new provider. Maybe business is slower than they let on so they don't want any potential competition.
But do either FBSM or Escort after hours. One I knew rather well, just didn't make enough at her employment to survive on... I don't think she had appointments every day.