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What surprises me is that you haven't seen these before. Like GaGambler, I get them all the time. (frim friends, family, providers, acquaintances, - anyone who has my email in their contacts)  I just ignore and delete.

As far as "giving them access" to your contacts, I'm pretty sure with those sites, that is by default when you sign up. You have to go into settings and physically click on something to not give them access.
Posted By: Flirtyjoe
I think you're right. I just read LinkedIn policies and if she gave them access to her address book, they will send an invite, and reminders, to everyone in it. I'll let her know; she's probably unaware

I arranged to see a provider next week and she has subsequently sent me an invite to join her network on LinkedIn. She is a well reviewed provider on this site and I contacted her through P411 with arrangements made through e-mail

The invite was sent to my hobby e-mail address (for which I do NOT have a LinkedIn acct) and I'm not sure what to make of it or what to do with it. Is this a verification step I haven't encountered before?

Everyone but her is going to be guessing.
That being said, I was new to gmail and the calendar function on a smartphone and added a date to the calendar - which emailed the lady and gave her access to my friend's list.  She's a cool person so it worked out just fine.  Could the same have happened with Linkedin?  I don't use social media so this stuff is all a mystery.

Linkedin and other social network sites "mine" members' contacts and spam everybody in the contacts to join. The provider did not invite you. Linkedin did

GaGambler264 reads

I get about 3-4 of these a week. The only thing you can really do about them is to ignore them and delete them as fast as they come in.

I think you're right. I just read LinkedIn policies and if she gave them access to her address book, they will send an invite, and reminders, to everyone in it. I'll let her know; she's probably unaware

What surprises me is that you haven't seen these before. Like GaGambler, I get them all the time. (frim friends, family, providers, acquaintances, - anyone who has my email in their contacts)  I just ignore and delete.

As far as "giving them access" to your contacts, I'm pretty sure with those sites, that is by default when you sign up. You have to go into settings and physically click on something to not give them access.

Posted By: Flirtyjoe
I think you're right. I just read LinkedIn policies and if she gave them access to her address book, they will send an invite, and reminders, to everyone in it. I'll let her know; she's probably unaware

iamwise261 reads

I got a linkedin invitation from someone I've never heard of it before. I definitely recognized the picture though. It turns out her story was really true; she had degrees from legitimate schools and an employment history, then she lost her new job bc of a dui (keys in the ignition law apparently). I even creeped a little bit more by googling her real name and found her facebook and even the dui mugshot. Felt a little weird but it was kinda hot to see real life pics of this chick again.

I feel bad though because if I got the email and we only met once, Im sure others got the emails too. I worry that some sick creep could take advantage of this--she looked like a normal chick who may have even been out of my league when i was younger--i dont think her family or friends would like to know.

Who knew nothing about it.  I figured it was Linked In SPAM & just deleted it.  One more reason hobbiests & providers should keep these things separate.

There's a setting where it will populate from your address book and invite people you might know.

Let her know about it- potentially embarrassing in this biz.

Can spam generate a direct invitation? The "people you may know" is there all the time, and I sometimes get emails asking if  
I know someone. But I've never had an actual invitation that was not sent directly.

It happens just like I said. LinkedIn (and other social network sites) mine the contacts of their members and send out email invitations to people in the contacts lists.

i agree it's probably unintentional. I let the provider know.

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