I've seen some references to this on some providers' sites: that they accept TER Whitelisting. I couldn't find any references to a whitelist here, in Self Help or the VIP benefits page. TIA.
I'm not sure where it's linked but it appears in the site map, where I found it. In sum, after you have seen someone, you can ask them to whitelist you. They need your name here or the associated email address
...Some Info for Providers in the Self-Help Center. The link to the White List FAQ'S is at the bottom of that page. I know it doesn't make sense to put it there but it does pertain to info providers need so it makes some sense but it needs to have it's own link in the list of links in the Self-Help Center. I've suggested this often.
I always recommend all newbies read all the info in the Self-Help Center even if it appears to be aimed at the other party. The more you know the better your chances of having a stellar experience.
Quick answer of what's White list is it's a way for a provider to say you're ok. Other providers can check your white list and use it as part of the information she uses to screen you.
If you have a VIP membership you can click on the 25 by my handle in this reply. It will take you to my list of ladies I've seen. Scroll down and you'll see my white lists