Thank for you feedback babe. Greatly appreciated
Hey guys
whats your definition of GFE? Everyone I've spoken to has a different definition. Besides kissing I dont consider my Self gfe because I like to play safe so I can live a long & healthy life.
Is this practice frown upon? Why do you prefer gfe
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means what would be happening with a real-world girlfriend.
Essential: Contact/touch, affection and warmth, conversation, passion, kissing, uncovered oral, all else covered is fine. Some toy play can be fun. More than 1 go, stay engaged the full time.
I don't need rimming, anal, or some of the fetish or roleplay things some enjoy.
Openness and letting the activities flow with mood, chemistry, attraction... making the best of how we click together
Thanks for the feedback
greatly appreciated
Essential: Contact/touch, affection and warmth, conversation, passion, kissing, uncovered oral, all else covered is fine. Some toy play can be fun. More than 1 go, stay engaged the full time.
I don't need rimming, anal, or some of the fetish or roleplay things some enjoy.
Openness and letting the activities flow with mood, chemistry, attraction... making the best of how we click together.
Includes deep french kissing, bbbj (bare back blow job), sometimes eating pussy, and good girlfriend personality to go with it. It is as real as it gets. Last GFE provider I saw gave me a bbbj for 15 minutes straight and she enjoyed every bit of it.
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Thanks babe the link helped alot
The guys would love a super hot spinner to enter this market but you'd have to lose the bp rules and image. Something u have to decide if u r ready to provide. Can't have a website that redirects you to some paid site that tracks your presence and has pay per view pics because guys only have limited time to check out sites and if we can't see pics then your an instant NO...(all providers should take note because it's prevalent and its a turn off). Tracking and site redirection are red flags to guys. If u want More donations then that equals more willingness to give us what we want. Reviews can make or break u. If u r into pretending u like being violated in many ways then welcome aboard....if u need everything covered and skidish about acting like u like us then bp is for u. Plenty of money to be made there on bp from friends I have with experience. We're not into pics that have anything written on them or ur phone number because that's not our style...more donations equals classier presentation...I think u get what I mean. Good luck and let me know how it works out for you.
Word is that Conan likes to hear some lamentation too. The way you worded that is a bit extreme for me, but if that game gets you the girls, then to each his or her own, I guess.
GFE to me is a provider being into there job lexi...it's unexplanable...it's like when you're with a provider and you know she enjoys what's she's doing just as you. That's a huge turn on for me..a provider that's liking it more than me keeps me interested personally...but some guys like a more submissive girl that is good at taking orders and is there to please the man by any means..that turns them on..it's just preference
whats your definition of GFE? Everyone I've spoken to has a different definition. Besides kissing I dont consider my Self gfe because I like to play safe so I can live a long & healthy life.
Is this practice frown upon? Why do you prefer gfe
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I agree with you babe thanks for the feedback
As others have mentioned, the kissing, uncovered oral, eye contact and the similar is part of it. However, I like the traditional form where the lady excuses here self, gets dolled up, takes time to bond through conversation, and allow things to progress naturally.
Examples of non GFE, not changing into something sexy, talking about where they have to be later, explaining the minute details of the business.
I think the GFE experience is more about the details of traditional romance in addition to the basics others have mentioned. Just my opinion of course.
Thank for you feedback babe. Greatly appreciated
For me the key aspect that differentiates a GFE experience from other encounters is the ability of both parties to feel and behave as though the relationship is voluntary and desirable, not a commercial transaction. The details of who does what, how and when are secondary, just as they would be in a real girlfriend-boyfriend relationship.
What's more "frown upon" is forgetting to proof read.
People can read between the lines on your snarky "I want to live a happy and safe life" comment.. quite the judgmental jasmine.
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Or maybe people shouldn't read between the lines because I didnt put anything there to read. Im very straight foward if i had some bashing to do it would be done already.Sorry if I believe uncovered sex & the exchange of body fluids increase your risk for infection I thought that was a while known fact. So why are GFE ladies trying to attack me for my personal opinion. I never disrespected you ladies. Please get out of your feelings and realize I was asking a serious question not calling GFE ladies out.
"get out your feelings"
let me guess
you don't do gfe because "daddy" told you not to. Jeez!
Lmao Britney im independent so I don't know what your talking about. Your a beautiful woman no need to get your panties in a bunch. if you enjoy what you're doing & it works for you keep up the good work.
WE are having sex ... as opposed to the reality that she is performing sex acts with me for a fee. Passionate kissing happens to be a Huge part of that. My .02.
This thread is a classic example of why the Maryland Hobby Board is failing. Bickering and name calling is so counterproductive.
I believe that Ishityounot created a thread about this earlier and no one took notice. Baltimore is a hub for conventions and tourism and no one is taking advantage of it as hobbyists and providers alike check this board before coming here.
Outside of becoming a tourist agent board, I have yet to see any provider who visits here and asks where to stay, or what is a good place to dine, etc. be run off by any negativity. Maybe I missed something.
IGNORE BUTTON. As in life it takes two to argue. If one refuses to play along you have nothing. Being a road warrior in the business world I have seen providers in many different states and I check both the ad boards as well as the regular board of the state I plan on visiting looking for information on prospective ladies.
If I see providers bickering or partaking in name calling I steer clear. I don't need or want the drama. As in any business, market YOURSELF, others will either follow in suit or fall way behind you.
I see in your first post on this, you stated that both hobbyists and providers alike were the issue with the bickering and name calling. In your response to how to fix it, you seem to be focusing on just the providers and whether you steer clear of seeing them because of their bickering and drama.
My question was more in line with both hobbyists and providers making the board better, but in the semantics I must of lost the nature of your intent. My apologies.
I applaud you Lexi for asking a question on a topic you were curious about, since after all that's what this board I'm sure was MEANT for. Shame on anyone who approached this topic with negativity, since it was not presented that way.
I think there were alot of helpful comments, and while I am not a man...
I think gfe comes in many forms, but generally it is just another term to separate the women who provide bbbj from the women who do not. I can argue it is more a natural joyful and sensual encounter, but that would just be MY version.
Hugs to all,
Miss Allison 48J
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Thank you tasty, I didn't know asking a question was gonna get so many people upset lol
No problem. Others may not always like it but that's life! Enjoy your Monday 
Good question for the gents- I have asked the same thing and have been told many things actually, but unfortunately uncovered oral for both partners IS a vital part of it for most men. Personally, I see no reason why that has to be so because girlfriends usually take time before the cover comes off while most hobbiests are deeply concerned about this. I am a priduct to the conditioning, but still consider it a game call. True GFE is about the romance and the genuineness of the experience for me. It is also about building a true friendship that has boundaries that the couple involved decide are personal and meaningful for them.
Many men are asking for PSE when they want GFE too...that makes them feel lime they missed something when they walk away without some detail that they had hoped for. I am told greek and/ or CIM steps it up to PSE.
As for the ladies' reactions, I do think it was your assumption that your way of looking at keeping safe is somehow assuming that those of us who practice differently are less safe/ dirty. Body fluids are transferred significantly with kissing...no way around it. Plus you have no idea if the gent has just been with his vanilla partner before seeing you, another gent, or another provider. So you really do not know what that mouth has been up too...as a very clean person and most of us are, I have a set hygiene regime between clients. There is no totally safe way to practice, but I/we try.
So yes, good question, but you could have left out the assumption stated loudly that your practice is the safe one.
I didn't assume I said how I felt at the end of the day it was a question.
Hi Lexi, I had a great time when I saw you a while ago. Not being GFE didnt detract from my experience at all with you.
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