Sexy is attitude and confidence in oneself. A natural smile is a big plus. Those cannot be faked.
I got this idea from the other thread. We all have our own ideas of what "sexy" is. But I want to hear from you guys...
What makes a girl sexy to you?? What does it take to make you look at a girl and think "Wow! She is so sexy!"?
Beyond the obvious physical reasons, personality is the most important. Smiles mean alot.
Well, there's looking sexy and being sexy: kind of level one and level two, and you don't find out about level two until after you've been to level one: first impressions, how a girl appears and carries herself, how she dresses and acts.
To me, sexy is sensual and alluring; to put it simply, sexy makes me want to jump her bones. Looks are of course a big part of this: a girl who isn't pretty (not necessarily beautiful but cute, attractive) isn't going to be sexy no matter how she dresses or acts, to me. But a beautiful girl may come off as cold and off-putting, which isn't sexy at all. So first is that she's attractive (say, at least a 6 on a scale of 10), then that she dresses in a suggestive or seductive way, and finally that her mannerisms--the way she talks, moves, gestures, tosses her hair, smiles--smiles are big!--looks at you from the corner of her eye, etc.--set level one sexy.
Level two is when you're with her and the fun is about to begin. If she's sexy, she'll make you hard and yearn for her body just by trailing her hand on your shoulder or dropping the sleeve of her blouse or other little things like that. And it goes from there...I'm sure you can fill in the blanks....
Sexy is not looks or size or anything atributed to physical appearance. Sexy is a sense, a smell, a look and a feeling. I have seen sexy old ladies and young men, if you got it you got it if not try flowers or candy of perfume.
Well right now this 30 or so filipino guy who I think must be a girl when he's not working at the grocery store I go to.
Beautiful face, shoulder lengh hair, sometimes pinned up some, feminine everything. Gait. Voice. Ass.
That's sexy to me at the moment. I think I might have to go over there and get me a can of soup in the morning.
good looks, a good body all help, but for me, the way a girl looks at you and the way she moves...at Peanuts Friday night there was one girl in particular, there with her boyfriend I think, and the wasy she look at him, and the way she moved when she walked onto the dancefloor with him....very, very sexy
I would have to say that "sexy" is as indefinable as it is subjective. There is a wide range of girls that I have found sexy at various times. The qualities they possess vary immensely, so I don't think there is any one particular thing that defines it for me.
Maybe it has to do with unconscious associations with past loves. The combination of qualities possessed by a girl come together in such a way as to evoke positive feelings and provoke the "Wow! She is so sexy!" response. The thing, or things, about her that causes me to respond in this way can vary each time.
YES! You guys have all got it. Sexy is many different things. Both physical and mental.
I'll share with you guys some things that *I* think are sexy....
I love dressing up for a guy. Dress, heels, tasteful make up, my long hair styled in a carefree, but sophisticated way.
When I am looking at a guy dreaming about all the possibilities and then he catches me at it, and then I blush and get embarrased but he just smiles and lets me off the hook.
Waking up next to someone you care about, your hair is tossled, you both have sleepy eyes and you both look at eachother and just smile with content.
Sharing a laugh together.
Not being embarrassed by holding hands in public, even though you feel like you're back in high school.
Walking along the beach at sunset and then just standing there kissing eachother.
Going up to my guy and giving him a surprise kiss.
A candle lit dinner at home.
Wearing high heels in bed.
Those are just SOME of the things that I think are sexy, or that makes me feel sexy. The list goes on and on....
I like the messed up hair in the morning too.
I loved what you wrote there Star. You're okay.
OK, allow me to simplify my definition of sexy: Star! Everything you described is truly sexy, Star (unless that bed is a waterbed....)
"Smile with content"....That's beautiful, Star.
You don't mind if I steal that, do you?
-- Modified on 8/1/2005 7:19:46 PM
Being a breast man, a low cut top that shows cleavage I find sexy. Also, when a gal walks by me in those low cut jeans that shows a thong bikini underneath is sexy. A gal who wears her hair back off her face and up where you can see her neck line and shoulders looks sexy. Dressing classy is very sexy.
I was in Peanuts last Friday and saw Wendy Williams and thought she looked very attractive, and about 10 minutes later I saw her with her glasses on and said to myself "that's a sexy look"
I've seen Prue a few time in Peanuts also, and I saw her wearing a type of hat and she looked very sexy to me.
On the other post about breasts one name Lola Malone, perfect
id have to say a nice face and smile and a friendly attitude and a nice look also clean well kept. i have seen girls that would be rated as average and have to say they are much sexier and apealing to me than a drop dead 10 with a terrible attitude
Sexy is hard to define, since it is in the eye of the beholder. IMHO, sexy can be a combination of attitude, presentation (what they wear), or natural beauty. As far as priority on how this influences my decision on sexiness of a woman: natural beauty, attitude, then presentation.
Sexy, is a certain twinkle in her eye that hints of mischief to come. Sexy, is a seductive glance right through to your soul. Sexy, is her wild hair in the morning as she stumbles into the kitchen for coffee,wearing nothing but your favorite button-up shirt. Sexy, when her legs are freshly shaved or waxed and shes taking your hands to feel the results. High heels are sexy.
Sexy is attitude and confidence in oneself. A natural smile is a big plus. Those cannot be faked.
Her eyes, smile, her hair on how she wears it. How she carries herself as a lady and yes a great pair of legs she is not afraid to show.
Clothes that fits her body type and does not over do it with the makeup. Natural is best.