I am a newbie in Columbus and have read many of the threads on guidance, do's, dont's etc. However, I couldn't find the answers to two questions I have so I decided to see if someone here my be able to provide guidance. What if the website does not list donation amounts, but says contact me? It also says on the ad to keep conversations rated G. So how is the best way to find the donation amount? Likewise, one of the pieces of guidance said to ask the lady services offered. This contradicts most ads that say any inappropriate language and you will be hung up on and not seen. So the logic is sort of circular. Anyone feel like helping a newbie out? I'd appreciate it.
Buy a VIP membership. Both of these items are most easily answered by having full access to the lady's review. It generally gives donations as well as some mention how much they have also tipped. It will also give information as to what the menu offers. Some ladies will also discuss these items with you on the phone after they have verified you. Just don't bring it up in the first conversation with them, and before ever just asking about these items, make sure they are comfortable talking about it. Go with well reviewed ladies and don't look for a bargain; nine times out of ten you will be disappointed with a bargain. Good luck and only think with the big head until you get behind closed doors.
Thank you!!!! That sounds like good advice. I appreciate it.
First, if there is no donation amount listed and her ad indicates to contact her, then I'd look at both P411 and TER to see if there was a donation amount listed on either or both of those sites. TER should have something to give you an idea. In any event, just to be sure, I'd contact her through email and say something to the effect of "I am very interested in meeting you. What is your donation requirement for an hour of your time?"
As far as services offered, I would rely on my research of reviews to tell me that. If there are none (and as a newbie, you shouldn't being seeing unreviewed gals until you get your sea legs IMHO) then you can ask in code. For example, "I noticed on your website to ask regarding services and would like to learn more." Or if you are interested in a specific service, like Greek, you could ask, "I was wondering if you'd be interested in a trip to the isles".
The important point is not to link the two. Have separate email exchanges. Hope that helps.
Go Bucks!! More sound advice that is very much appreciated. I think becoming a VIP is key over trying to fly blind. Thanks again, I do appreciate it.
Thank you for the very sound advice!!
There's nothing illegal about selling time...ask how long for whatever amount of time. If a girl offers a menu, avoid here. It's a very dangerous thing for a lady to do.
You have great questions and unfortunately their both sticky subjects.
You can talk to other trusted hobbiest that have written reviews on her or simply read her reviews.
Good Luck!!
I know many folks don't want to put money into this website, but I'll tell you- VIP is so valuable. Get VIP, and that solves both of your problems! You will be able to see the ladies rates and her services!! Now, if you don't want to do that.
I, personally, put my rates on my website, but I dont put them on my ads. So, I would say if a lady says "ask me" for her rates, that you should ask her initially to know whether or not she is a girl that you would like to see. Personally, I would say that asking about specific services is always not a good idea. But, you can ask if a girl provides GFE which will give you an idea of whether or not she provides kissing, BBBJ, etc. Now, some girls dont go by this definition of GFE- but I personally do not discuss my services and will always direct someone to my reviews if they ask about my services.