It might be a combination of your very numerous posts in conjunction with your admitted spelling/grammar/typing issues. Some people may find that off putting.
You seem to be a decent enough fellow but remember what you call the truth other people view as an opinion and not everyone will like your opinions.
It's also probably not wise to post about a private conversation you had with a provider and name names as you did with Stacey. I don't think that will win you any favor with some of the wonderful local ladies, in fact it may make it more difficult for you going forward. As you know, for these ladies this is more than just a business - every time they see us they put a lot on the line and if they aren't comfortable seeing you, for whatever reason they may have, they are justified in refusing a meeting.
Is it cool to have people trash you to providers? No, it isn't, but this isn't a regulated industry where you have recourse for perceived or real wrong doings.
When you have had two public dramas with local ladies people may see it as a reflection of you not them. I'm not saying this is the case with you, but most providers don't want to get caught up in a battle on the boards and may chose to stay away. Your reputation is built not only by meeting with women but also by the impression that the provider takes of you from your postings.
If I were you I'd relax a little bit maybe take a vacation from the boards and start fresh or maybe make an appointment with a visiting lady.
Good luck.
I ask a question what do you do when a provider says many board members are telling her not to see me???
as you all know i say whats on my mind and dont sugar coat things I believe the truth is the best even though it may hurt some ones feelings.
your responses would be greatly be appreciated
I thought I had a good sincere reputation on this board
please let me know if I am mistaken or not
thanks for your time in advance
Col Hogan
It might be a combination of your very numerous posts in conjunction with your admitted spelling/grammar/typing issues. Some people may find that off putting.
You seem to be a decent enough fellow but remember what you call the truth other people view as an opinion and not everyone will like your opinions.
It's also probably not wise to post about a private conversation you had with a provider and name names as you did with Stacey. I don't think that will win you any favor with some of the wonderful local ladies, in fact it may make it more difficult for you going forward. As you know, for these ladies this is more than just a business - every time they see us they put a lot on the line and if they aren't comfortable seeing you, for whatever reason they may have, they are justified in refusing a meeting.
Is it cool to have people trash you to providers? No, it isn't, but this isn't a regulated industry where you have recourse for perceived or real wrong doings.
When you have had two public dramas with local ladies people may see it as a reflection of you not them. I'm not saying this is the case with you, but most providers don't want to get caught up in a battle on the boards and may chose to stay away. Your reputation is built not only by meeting with women but also by the impression that the provider takes of you from your postings.
If I were you I'd relax a little bit maybe take a vacation from the boards and start fresh or maybe make an appointment with a visiting lady.
Good luck.
Such wisdom from a red sox fan! Too bad the team doesn't have it! Nice, well thought out comments.
A Yankee fan.
Tallal
colhogan, it goes back to a post I made earlier. The providers can trash us on a public board, and do pretty much whatever they want, but when we hobbyist speak our minds, we're crapped on.
It's not fair.
Good luck to you sir.
I suspect this may have a lot to do with it. Look back over your posts and think how you come across.
JMHO
i have to agree with mr stride here.
i don't know you from adam. i've read most of your posts. you DO come across as a straight up guy in the long run, and you ARE supported by a lot of guys i respect on this board. HOWEVER, you also frequently come across as abrasive and opinionated. people pick that up and respond negatively to it; you can stick by your guns and say, 'i'm just being honest, i'm just being myself', but that won't change the response you get.
i'm not putting you down at all, just trying to offer my 2 cents worth of insight into your question.
I don't really think your being rail roaded because if I'm not mistaken you were proven innocent of all your charges. personally I think a provider who has not met you yet may have some hesitations right now but after a while when things calm down, you may want to contact her again. Remember that a provider also has a right as to who she chooses to see.