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ThePeopleRule 389 reads
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mssexysd619:

Because you are new, you do not realize you have a more pressing problem than not having a personal website.  Four minutes before you posted this question you posted on the San Diego Ad board and said

"Curious for more? Just ask."

Since you listed a phone number presumably you intended us to call you and ask for explicit information about services and donations.  (Your having the envelope icon under your name is a confusing TER-"feature"; it does not indicate that you can currently see PM's sent to you, merely that they may be maintained in an inbox until you become a paying VIP or have "limited provider VIP".)

The two other online ads you posted elsewhere also list only a phone number (rather than an email address).  

Your saying the wrong thing during a phone call with an unknown person might leave to a "life-changing event" and not one that you will remember fondly.

Hello everyone,

I'm new to the hobby online so I'm wondering any good places to start a website and if I really benefit from having one. I want to be as discrete as possible so my personal life does not conflict with my career. Any answers are appreciated

Fairly new to this as well, but on the other side of the coin, LOL

I would suggest getting one, but, obviously fake handle like you have here, hobby phone and always blur out your face in pics. Don't completely blank out face as some do, which just seems like overkill and well, makes the pic look a bit weird to me.
If you have anything distinguishing like tattoos, get them blurred as well.

Tell people a little about yourself and your personality without going into to much detail of course, likes and dislikes.

A brief description of menu and prices of course.

 
As for who to host it for you, there seems to be a few popular ones out there but, i'll leave that to your research on pricing, but, you may want to find one where you can disable it when not working as you stated, wanting to keep things separate.

Just my 2 Cents, Good luck

from having a website online.There are many sites that have templates and offer a free option or a very low cost for you to create a website like wix.com or escortdesign.com
You can also pay someone to build you a website.
If you are just starting out a free site would be your best option.You can always upgrade your website later.
If you pay extra you can purchase your own domain name so you won't have for example suzyQ.escort-design. instead it would be www.suzyQ.com

Having a website gives the gents an idea what you offer and what you are about.
Share a little about yourself,your rates,pictures,and anything else interesting you want to add about yourself.
For keeping discreet I would suggest blurring your face and if you have any identifying tattoos removing those out of your photos.Or if you are not sure how to blur your face in a pic crop part of your face out of the picture.Do not use any photos on your website or ads that you have used in your personal life even if blurred or cropped.
Good luck to you.

......that if the OP is going to blur her tattoos, she should let gentlemen know in advance, or through her site, that she them.  She does not need to say where, or what, but she should disclose this.  Many gentlemen do not like tattoos.

   Now, I know this is just me, but the OP should not include her phone number in her ads and site, unless she wants the endless calls asking about rates, services, location, etc.  

Hugs,
Kelly

Posted By: BeautywithBrains
location
 
Yes, indeed.  "Location" has many meanings.  

How many times have I seen an ad and there isn't an indication of the geographic location, as in city + state.  Saying "I host in upscale hotels downtown." doesn't help if we don't know the town!  You can keep it simple: "I am based in MyCity but I travel to East, West, North and South.  Please see my calendar for my touring schedule."  

Location could also mean hotel or apartment or landmark or similar.  Just saying "Near The Big Famous Landmark" ("art museum", "new Hilton Hotel") is not enough without knowing the city!!!

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mssexysd619:

Because you are new, you do not realize you have a more pressing problem than not having a personal website.  Four minutes before you posted this question you posted on the San Diego Ad board and said

"Curious for more? Just ask."

Since you listed a phone number presumably you intended us to call you and ask for explicit information about services and donations.  (Your having the envelope icon under your name is a confusing TER-"feature"; it does not indicate that you can currently see PM's sent to you, merely that they may be maintained in an inbox until you become a paying VIP or have "limited provider VIP".)

The two other online ads you posted elsewhere also list only a phone number (rather than an email address).  

Your saying the wrong thing during a phone call with an unknown person might leave to a "life-changing event" and not one that you will remember fondly.

I'm not sure what you mean by listing a phone number instead of email address and saying the wrong thing but I'm guessing that would be why having a website is helpful

He's talking about LE.  If you discuss particular activities over the phone, it can be used as evidence against you should you ever be arrested.  Depending on your jurisdiction, cops will collect whatever evidence they can in order to build a case against you, but they can't make an arrest until you actually accept money.

That's why screening is so so important, but that's for another time.  

Having a website clarifies things for potential clients, and gives you something to refer them to... i.e.:

Client: Hi mssexysd619, do you do bbbj and greek?

mssexysd619: Hi! thanks for your inquiry.  Please refer to my website for answers to specific questions like that.  I don't discuss those topics on the phone.  

good luck!

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