grandfathered rates to guys they have seen for a few years. If and when they raise their rates, they keep the established client at the same rate.
Hi, I'm glad to have found a provider whose services I enjoy. I've had two visits with her so far. What has been your experience with providers offering discounts for regular clients? After how many visits did you get a discounted rate and by what percent was it? Would it be an appropriate question to ask my provider after three sessions
Some girls will work out a deal for you, especially if you are a regular. Some of this really depends on you though.
How often do you plan to see her? For how many hours per session?
Are you ok if she says she wants to end the p4p relationship if you bring this up to her? If not, you may not want to risk it.
So there are a lot of factors that go into something like this. The more time/$ you invest in a girl, generally speaking, the better chance you will have to work out a special deal. If she likes you and you respect her wishes, all the better.
I don't recommend that newbie guys negotiate or go down this road as there are several things that can happen to the downside, like her putting you on her DNS list or worse, but most girls won't have a problem bringing this up if it is in her best interest to do so as well. Win/win, as I like to refer to it.
Lots to think about here and I would say hold off for now until you see her more and get more experience in this biz. Good luck.
I wouldn't ask for a Discount after just two visits. I'd go on paying her Full Rate for at least a couple of months. And see her on a steady basis. If you can see her about once a week for a few months, that would tell her you like seeing her and she'll get to know you. I asked my current Provider for a Discount after seeing her once a week for three months once a week. Now after a year and a half, I pay her Discounted Rate and still get the same Awesome Session as if I paid her Full Rate.
It obviously depends on the provider, but two or three visits does not qualify as a 'regular' to many of them. Not all providers will discount anyone, even their favorites, other than maybe some informal extension of time. Only you know what your rapport is with her, but if it feels like its awkward to ask, its probably not time yet.
Be careful of locking in too soon on her, even if the first few appointments were great. You don't want to raise red flags with her that you're getting obsessed or clingy. Leave yourself some time between the enjoyment to make sure you're thinking clearly and whether you really want to be on that side of an arrangement. You see her too often, eventually one or both of you will have a bad day, and will you still be happy about being on the hook to see her again soon to justify your discount?
Finally it may just be smart to get to know her a little better. There's a fine line in this game between a special friend and a doe-eyed mercenary who will draw you in then cut you off if you can't keep up the frequency of visits.
...What's a regular by her definition? How much time are you spending? A regular customer discount for an hour a week probably won't be a welcome idea to her. Regular for multi-hour sessions might get a favorable response. Don't forget what Jack said, be prepared for her to turn you down and not agree to see you again at all. Many things are possible but after just two or three visits isn't the time to inquire. Spend more visits with her and with others. Get some experience before pursuing you idea.
...regular differently.
I have never been offended when a gentleman asks if I offer "discounts" for regular gentlemen callers. My policy is different than most ladies, as I do not offer discounts per date; but through an arrangement. If a gentleman pre-pays for so many hours each month, he will receive an adjusted rate. He must also use said hours within the month.
Now, I know that many of you will balk at pre-paying, but if you choose a reputable lady, it should not be an issue.
I am a bit baffled why any lady would refuse to see a gentleman again for asking about a discount, or why she would put him on a BlackList.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
...Additionally I have to think you have read the threads about negotiating. I know I have. While you may not consider asking for a regular's discount as negotiating it is. Many providers here have spoken on the subject and not favorably. All of that is another discussion though. I still think two or three visits isn't enough to establish a monger will be/is a regular but it's not my opinion that matters.
Please note too that you are quite often the exception to the way many things are done by those that post and share here on a regular basis. I don't say that to disparage what you say. I point it out only because it's something to consider in this context.
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....might be offended if only a handful of dates have taken place.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly
The one or two times I've done this, I didn't prepay, but there was an agreement about frequency and duration, so not just a discounted rate, but a discounted rate with an agreement as to how much work she would be receiving in consideration of the discount.
Prepaying is generally a no no for me, but I get the reasoning, with a woman whose word I could rely on that might not be a barrier.
Again, I don't recommend newbs do it, but for experienced mongers who know how the game is played and know how to make the right approach, virtually everything is workable, within reason.
But I'm not disagreeing with you. 
I usually agree with most of your posts and this one is no different. As you said, 2 visits will not make most people a regular. However you also posted your disclaimer in your first sentence. "What's a regular by her definition?" That is the key. What does the lady consider a regular. For some it's someone seeing them on a regular scheduled basis (ie once a week) for some it's someone who sees them every time she visits his city. For some (must be the case with the 3 who considered me a regular after 2 visits), anyone who repeats might be considered a regular.
In any case, as I said, no disagreement here, just making the point that every lady is different. Also I never asked any of these ladies for a discount or special treatment as a "regular" but one of them did grandfather me in at a ridiculously low rate (at her suggestion, not mine.)
I have been seeing guys for years and there is no discount. Try it and you might be okay but I don;t like your chances. Three visits? Not on your life!
You might feel there is all this connection stuff but she might not feel that way and she might feel that she earns every dollar seeing you. If she values you enough she MIGHT offer a discount.
By all means try and haggle her down. You might be looking for a new ATF or her level of service might drop enough so you voluntarily leave. OR, she will only too happy to cut her fee for you...it is a gamble and you will have to live with the result
Anything under 2 hours is full price, unless you're seeing me multiple times per week. I've had people see me 2-3 times in one week, but just for one or two weeks, not over a long period of time.
As others have said, 3 visits is not what I'd really consider a regular. I'd consider someone worthy of a discount, to have seen me at VERY REGULAR, VERY FREQUENT intervals over a period of at least a few months. OR, to see me a bit less frequently, but to always book longer dates.
Also, your visit has to be (mostly) enjoyable and problem-free.
multiple times per week she's gonna have to pay ME!
I have some regulars that I have been seeing for some time . The gentlemen I see weekly or by weekly I do offer a speical rate.
Yearlier this year I increases my rates, but it was for new clients only, I wont go up on clients that have a good history with me, I adore my regulars , but meeting new men still is a turn on ..
grandfathered rates to guys they have seen for a few years. If and when they raise their rates, they keep the established client at the same rate.
I would never ask her for it though.
I have had extra time given a couple of times.
I wouldn't count on it as a normal occurrence.
It's your call if you want to pay more but there is two ways to play, if you want.
If one of my long term guys was to ask me, I would simply let him know that they can have the reduce rate with zero extra time, nothing OTC ever again, out at exactly 60 minutes. I would also cancel if another guy wanted to see me at my regular rate (hey he wants more for less, I want less for more).
Or they could keep paying my rate and the perks in extra time OTC time just like always.
Remember I do not do multi hour, where there might be some wiggle room. AND if I do ever did advertise multi hour I will make sure that I add some for the hagglers that way they think they get a deal and I get what I have worked out that makes this okay
remember the price you pay is what she is willing to see you for. That's their motivating factor. So, if she could only get, let's say, $150- 200 per hour, she wouldn't do it. That's why she charges $400. If it was a normal practice you'd see "rates negotiable" on their site.
True some ladies are more willing to negotiate but I wouldn't ant to put her on the spot to find out.
and had to put up with what they do you're opinion would change.
next time you're at the grocery store and you see a woman 15 yrs. older than you that you're really not attracted to, ask yourself how much you'd charge her for sex.
just sayin'
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The lady I have seen the most over the last 8 months (17 visits vs 3 with others) has never given me a discount and I would never ask her for one. What is entertainment/recreation/education for me is her livelihood. She has rent and other bills to pay.
But, she has always spent extra time with me, which in a $/min way is a discount of sorts. I would much rather spend extra time with her than end exactly on time at less cost.
She also probably knows she secured my customer loyalty by the end of our second meeting
17 times in 8 months? hasn't been 17 in 3 yrs for me.
I changed my mind. She should give you 50% off your next 2 appointments and you should demand it!
so my rate is less than her currant ads.
This was about 8 years ago and I had seen her quite a few times. She said it was because of the economy. There was no way I could give her less than I had been giving her. So I actually was giving her more than her advertised rate, but she did make it up to me in other ways.
as others have noted, 3 visits doesn't make you a regular, and asking for a discount is tacky. Most ladies post on their sites that their rates aren't up for negotiation.
Now, if you continue to see her regularly, she will more than likely give you different perks that she doesn't give others. Time OTC, having your favorite drink at her incall, etc. Don't take those things for granted. Hookers happen to have a lot of overhead costs (that hotel or incall you're at isn't cheap, and neither is the car payment, parking, and gas if she's doing outcalls; those Eros/backpage/other web ads are hella expensive too).
Also, why would she discount you if you're willing to pay full price? I mean, that's just common sense. I've had plenty of clients ask for sessions when they're short on cash, and I tell them to wait. They do, and they come see me. Word gets around about providers that aren't strict on their rates, and if she does it for one, she'll end up doing it for lots more.
NO. I doubt 3 visits will get you the "friends and family" plan. I've seen providers about 10 times before I bring up the topic and the discount will depend on the lady. Act like a gentleman and she will enjoy being with you more. Providers see a lot of assholes so don't be one of "those guys. Have her beverage of choice on hand, be freshly showered and groomed for each session, leave her alone out side of the session, don't ask her for freebies, her real name, or bbfs. Tell her that you want to be a regular, but can only afford to see her X amount of times and maybe she will take pity on you. The percent will vary and depend on what kind of client you were. I've had 25% knocked off with one lady, but that's rare. 10 to 15% is probably a safer number.