that provides a very useful process for overcoming PE, and more.
"How To Make Love All Night: And Drive a Woman Wild! (Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking)", by Barbara Keesling. It is an easy read, but a process that takes some dedication. You can buy it, or probably even find a free download somewhere on the net.I am ending a long a difficult marriage and am ready to get back in the saddle. The problem i face is that i suffer from premature ejaculation which can make sex very frustrating. Are you aware of any remedies, medications, or training i can pursue to help with the condition?
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The other thing that will cure it is having LOTS and LOTS of sex. lol
I am serious about this, the more sex you have the less nervous you will be about it. The best cure I can think of, if your budget can afford it of course, is to go on a several day "fuck fest" try fucking a dozen different women over a weekend and I guarantee you, number 12 is going to take you a lot longer to finish than did number one.
It consists of masturbating and noticing how close you are to climax. As you feel yourself approaching the point of no return, stop masturbating and then breath in and out very deeply until you erection begins to flag. Then slowly build up again and repeat this process as many times as you can before you finally pop.
Over time, you'll become more aware of the signs that tell you to hold back and you will be able to prolong your session.
You can also meet with a tantrika who will show you this and do the hand job for you. It's expensive of course, but a lot more fun.
It worked very well for me.
Old age is another way to prolong, but I don't recommend it.
but I do agree about old age, I can only dream of the days where I could cum in ten minutes, much less 30 seconds.
I will agree that your way will work for a guy that cums simply "too quickly" after only two or three minutes, but some guys are truly "two pump chumps" and cum almost immediately after penetration or even before. For these guys there is no "warning signs" that they are about to cum, and because of that your method won't be of any help.
A tantrika is also a very good way to learn how to hold back. and of course there is always the tried and true, "drink a bottle of booze" first technique, but it's probably not advisable for our purposes here either. lol
because the only known alternative is death.
Better to manage and enjoy the ageing.
Tantrikas are awesome. I've worked on many men that have different needs and find relief by utilizing techniques taught during session. First thing is allowing yourself to be in the moment and breathe. Seems relatively easy but many cannot get out of their heads. We are intune with you and you are focused on the moment being entirely different than what you're accustomed to. We help you build your pelvic floor which is the key to controlling your releases.
I would suggest taking some Kudalini classes, or yoga to help strengthen the muscles also.
that provides a very useful process for overcoming PE, and more.
"How To Make Love All Night: And Drive a Woman Wild! (Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking)", by Barbara Keesling.
It is an easy read, but a process that takes some dedication.
You can buy it, or probably even find a free download somewhere on the net.
This isn't an "official" way of slowing down, but it works for me (sometimes): Do the opposite of a Kegel exercise. Consciously relax your sphincter muscles and maybe slow or stop the thrusting for a moment. You can also stop intercourse when you feel like you're getting close and switch to cunnilingus or fingers. You can also share it with your partner. "Sometimes I come too soon. So if I do "x", I'm trying to slow down." The women will cooperate with you. It's a common problem and they want you to have a positive experience. (It's good for repeat business. :-