Newbie - FAQ

Let's get others opinion, shall we?
JackDunphy 434 reads
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How about we take this over to the GD and see what others have to say about you B&S again? Seems like you have quite the rep on the Carolina board.

Waddya say? Since TER frowns on this type of thing here, let's bring all the guys and gals together.

You game or do you just want to hang here, where you feel all cozy and protected?

If not I understand. Just don't pick Corinne again. What a PR disaster that was!  

But I certainly don't need to tell you. What an embarrassment to have the guys and girls rip you.

Sheez...

WagMoreBarkLess2047 reads

At the end of a first session with a provider, if I really like her, is it okay to bring up setting a date for a second session? Or is that considered bad form?

ROGM520 reads

Just say you'd like to see her again soon. I wouldn't set an Exact Date for a second session after just seeing her. For my second session I told the Provider I'm seeing that I'm going to see her again next week. I'll call you to set up the exact time and day. And I did.

...you know when you can see her next, why not just go ahead and set the date.  If you wait too long, she might not be available; especially if she is very low volume.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Senator.Blutarsky389 reads

...at least with scheduling.  Now when you meet, I'm sure that some fun games are played to the enjoyment of both parties

how is that playing games?  

i suppose if you want to seee her the NEXT day it might matter. i don't think she'd think twice about it either way.

Posted By: Senator.Blutarsky
...at least with scheduling.  Now when you meet, I'm sure that some fun games are played to the enjoyment of both parties.  
   
 

Senator.Blutarsky359 reads

If you know you'd like to see her again and you know your schedule... why wait and risk her not being available?  If you know you'd like to see her again, but are not sure of when you can get away... then by all means, wait until you know and try to set something up.  Just don't get mad and pissy if she isn't available.  These gals have better things to do and certainly are not waiting around just for your call.  

The gals are certainly not shy in asking for repeat business... I can't tell you how many times I've heard... "I'd really like to see you again" or "I hope I see you again soon".  Just sayin' '

now i'd be sleeping so i dont know where youre going with that.

yes i've heard the same " hope to see you,,," BUT they've never said ' i hope to see you again. How about next Thursday at 3pm"

Posted By: Senator.Blutarsky
If you know you'd like to see her again and you know your schedule... why wait and risk her not being available?  If you know you'd like to see her again, but are not sure of when you can get away... then by all means, wait until you know and try to set something up.  Just don't get mad and pissy if she isn't available.  These gals have better things to do and certainly are not waiting around just for your call.    
   
 The gals are certainly not shy in asking for repeat business... I can't tell you how many times I've heard... "I'd really like to see you again" or "I hope I see you again soon".  Just sayin' '  

Kinda like those TV ads that say "and if you call within the next 10 minutes we'll double the shit that you have no use for." Lol.  

Trust me, if you have the coin, she'll be available sometime soon. You can count on it senator. ;)

I'm continuously amazed at the clever, outrageous, creative handles that pop up here.  This one, is award-winning.  No problem with snarky, but a "warm fuzzy" is just as divine Kudos, WMBL!

Now...how does one steal it without gettin' sued?  Hmm....Oh yeah, some of my friends have ,esq. after their esteemed moniker or should I say sobriquet?  

Sobriquet. Sobriquet. Sobriquet!  When you say it ten times out loud, doesn't it sound ridiculous? Okay, when I say it once out loud, it sounds ridiculous.   Maybe I'll just go back to sleep now.

If you know when you would like to meet again and are sure you can be there, set it up with her. If you think "that was so good I need another shot of her next week" but don't know for sure that you'll be able to get away, set it up when you know you have the time.

Could be putting her on the spot if she doesnt want to see YOU!  

 i had a lady say that to me but would have felt awkward trying to set it up right then so I waited a few days.

Give yourself a few days and see how you feel. There is no rush. Someone else might catch your eye in the meantime and you may want to pursue that which may put you in a bad spot of wanting to cancel with the first gal.

A few days to reflect and ponder never hurts. One often sees things differently on reflection without the afterglow which may affect your decision making process.

All she is going to do is accept or accept but then be "unavailable". You'll never know until she actually books the next session with you.  

Remember, you really liked her, she was doing her job. If you were clean, decent, respected her boundaries etc., then she might be okay with seeing you again.  

If perchance you contact her but can't nail down the next appointment (constantly unavailable or cancels), you might want to give up as this is her way of letting you know she is not interested in seeing you again. Sometimes the money is just not enough to see some guys again.

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