Putting on the high heels for a moment to walk in another's shoes...
Imagine if all your clients were directionless: they just walked in wanting their worlds rocked but have no idea what it takes. Then along comes a guy who says "hey, I really like XYZ role playing, are you interested or can you expand on those lines?"
I don't want to be the guy who is asking for the moon without providing appropriate consideration but I also don't want to get taken advantage of. Would asking for something like a little basic role play to start off a session (e.g. pretend to be my girlfriend's sister and seduce me) be considered part of normal service?
unless the gent required me to purchase something I would not normally have... like a wedding dress, which I did purchase for a client and was reimbursed.
But every lady is different, and I would just ask her. No harm in that, as long as you don't link the question to something sexual.
Good: Would you consider starting our session with a little role play in which you are my girlfriend's sister? Would there by any additional gift for that, if you are OK with the role play?
Bad: Would you pretend to be my girlfriend's sister, and drop to your knees for a BBBJ as you seduce me? Is there a extra charge for that?
See what I mean? Good luck!
Tab
No, I never charge extra for role play. I do appreciate it when you let me know in advance. That way I can have my mind wrapped around your fantasy (what ever it might be) when you arrive.
Putting on the high heels for a moment to walk in another's shoes...
Imagine if all your clients were directionless: they just walked in wanting their worlds rocked but have no idea what it takes. Then along comes a guy who says "hey, I really like XYZ role playing, are you interested or can you expand on those lines?"
The few times I've asked have been gratefully accepted, but so far I've not requested costumes outside the normal wardrobe someone might have. There was one who dressed up for me in a smokin' secretary outfit and had fun with it, but was also glad to take it off as she "normally I just wear lingerie at the start". That tight skirt really got in the way, and the earrings were uncomfortable, but it was part of the fantasy.
Now if you have an elaborate session in mind, then a pre-meeting and frequent discussions may be essential. That's approaching theater and takes a special commitment from both of you and any extras in the scene!
Your post here was a good start, now pick out a provider and ask her directly. Trust me, she's likely heard worse!
OTOH, many providers (in this thread & others) have stated that they enjoy role-play. On with the show. --z