So far I have been sticking to a routine during my dates. I've been pretty much following a script. My routine looks like this; 1-initial greeting 2- set donation down 3- shower 4- some light conversation leading to GFE style make out session 5- followed by the main event activities. then rinse and repeat steps 4 and 5 if time allows it.
Is this the best route to go or should I let things flow more naturally and wing it more. I guess that I am concerned about the "focus" being lost
Are you having fun?
Seriously, who cares what others are doing if you enjoy the hobby. I am the opposite of you. I take each session as it comes and I am certainly not into scripting anything but I wouldn't tell you what to do.
If things are good, roll with it. When/if it gets stale, throw caution to the wind and change it up.
Only you can tell if you need a change or not.
... Quoting an old song, "it's yo thang, do whatcha wanna do. I cain't tell yuh who to sock it to..." or in this case how to sock it to her.
I don't have a script. I do have things I like to do and they often are done in a particular order because of my circumstances (two pops in an hour? not happening) but I have skipped one or two just because of the feeling at the time or based on the providers services offered. I basically go with the flow.
If you feel it's getting mechanical for you then I suggest changing it up but if you're happy with it just keep on keeping on.
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I just go with the flow of how we interact. If you are comfortable with the same routine each time you see a provider, more power to ya. I prefer to just let things happen, there is no timetable for me. To each his/her own.
Swim
BBBJ or DATY first? which positions? Or do you mostly just stick with one you like? Massage between rounds? Do you give her a massage too? How much chit chat? Most of the routine you laid out is pretty standard, but the devil, and fun, is in the detail! Also, as others have said, letting her lead a bit can be fun. Also, you can mix it up by allowing yourself to cum a different way - like if you usually only use the BJ as a starter, why not, if you are enjoying it, just lay back and relax and let her take you all the way to completion? This would definitely fall under "going with the flow." I guess go with the flow has it's limits, like if she wants to watch TV - yes, I had a date like that! - but for the most part it works out, and if it starts to go off course, just suggest something you want to do to get it back on course to meet your desires.