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Epsilon_Eridani 346 reads
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... NEVER, EVER, attempt to show your drivers license or any type of ID to anyone! that means, providers, police, hobbyists or anyone else that you come across!!

if you do a YouTube of showing your ID, that's inviting hackers and criminals to take advantage of you.  

don't be stupid and invite trouble that way.

there are other ways to get screened. there are a number of different ways that providers can screen you and approve you for a session. just ask the provider or go to their website and read up on their screening process.

oh... if you found that lady on BP... DO NOT attempt to see her unless she has some form of online identity such as a profile here on TER.  

play if safe and don't do stupid things!

best thing you can do right now is get a TER VIP access. that will give you far more information than what you get without a VIP access.  

trust me... it's worth the money! that VIP access fee is far better than sitting in jail because you didn't do your homework.
 
Posted By: NyOtaku
Yeah that's what I meant with the private video I would make. I would probably show my license or college ID. So even after even if you had my info you still think it's a bad idea? :(  
   
Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret
You'll have to give your personal info to someone...either a provider or P411 or Date-Check...it's your choice.  You can always take a gamble with a Backpage provider who doesn't screen if you don't mind the potential for ending up in jail.  But I, personally, don't accept references from those ladies.  
     
  If you're new to the game, you don't get to remain anonymous.  Most of the time, anyway.  ;)

AmantePiedi1947 reads

So I recently read a thread and found out that newbie friendly doesn't mean what I thought it meant. I used to think it meant "inexperienced" such as myself or new to this hobby specifically, which it pretty much does mean that. But I found out it also means that providers are willing to toftt and use other forms to screen you. I found provider willing to see me and asked for a LinkedIn, which I don't have, or my Facebook which I don't feel safe giving out. But I thought of something I could possibly use if its ok with a provider.
     To any provider who reads this would it be possible for me to use my YouTube account as something? I made it about 6 years ago and I have uploaded regularly. I was about 13 when I started uploading and I am currently 19 and I personally think it would be able to verify who I am.  
     Here's the thing I'm pretty sure my account, while it may be verifiable, some providers might want more info, so I was planning on making a private video with any other requests a provider might have in order to verify me. I would make a video make it private then send them the link so only they could access it.
     So to any providers who think this is a decent way to verify me please let me know or any providers within LI, Ny willing to see me with this method please let me know. Thank you for your time. :)

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AmantePiedi378 reads

I currently don't have VIP and I received two messages so if your reading this again please send it to my alternate email, (TER username)villa at aol. Reason is I'm not sure when I'm getting VIP so I wouldn't know how relevant your message would be by the time I read it thank you.

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lumbermanxxx334 reads

Ok, first your 19, your probably not married so no worries there.  Do your research first, check out Preferred411 this is what they do.  DO NOT make the video and show your info, you'll be safer to give it to a source that will verify you.  Find a well reviewed provider who is Newbie friendly contact her they way she (website) asks you to.  Explain yourself DO NOT LIE to her be honest, it will probably work out.  The first one is the hardest.  Good luck my friend...

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swimtrekr387 reads

your idea is not good, and I totally agree with them.  On a side note, number one, get VIP, it's worth it, and number two, you are probably going to get some turn-downs because of your age.  Many providers will not see someone as young as you are.  Yeah, I know, it sucks, but that's the way of the hobby.  It's their choice as to who they see for whatever reason.

Your best bet is to join one of the verification sites.  That way you only have to give out personal info once, instead of to several providers.

Swim

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Posted By: NyOtaku
    So I recently read a thread and found out that newbie friendly doesn't mean what I thought it meant. I used to think it meant "inexperienced" such as myself or new to this hobby specifically, which it pretty much does mean that. But I found out it also means that providers are willing to toftt and use other forms to screen you. I found provider willing to see me and asked for a LinkedIn, which I don't have, or my Facebook which I don't feel safe giving out. But I thought of something I could possibly use if its ok with a provider.  
      To any provider who reads this would it be possible for me to use my YouTube account as something? I made it about 6 years ago and I have uploaded regularly. I was about 13 when I started uploading and I am currently 19 and I personally think it would be able to verify who I am.  
      Here's the thing I'm pretty sure my account, while it may be verifiable, some providers might want more info, so I was planning on making a private video with any other requests a provider might have in order to verify me. I would make a video make it private then send them the link so only they could access it.  
      So to any providers who think this is a decent way to verify me please let me know or any providers within LI, Ny willing to see me with this method please let me know. Thank you for your time. :)

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